Me and the wife have a few toys for her already that we like to use as foreplay. We generally start with a clit suction toy which gives her a few orgasms every few minutes then move onto her using her bullet vibrator on her clit whilst i use a very large vibrating dildo inside her. I like to use them on her until shes literally all orgasmed out and cant take any more and then we finally move onto sex, often whilst she still uses the bullet or the suction toy on her clit at the same time. By the time we finish her knees are normally shaking from all the orgasms. (Some sessions she manages several orgasms and sometimes she can only handle a few). For me the more times i get to see her cum the better.
This leads to my question. We’d like to add one more toy to our collection. I’d like to find something she can use hands free that works on both her clit and inside her pussy at the same time. Ideally it’d be something that will pleasure her in both ways simultaneously so a) she can continue being pleasured on the occasions when she goes down on me without having to use her or my hands to hold the toy.
B) we’d also like something that stays in place during sex, so it can be inside her whilst i’m inside her.
we want the insertable part to vibrate and the part that stimulates her clit to be suction or maybe vibrator. And it must be comfortable for her.
can anyone suggest any toys in particular that meet our needs/wants?
Yes thats the kind of thing we’re probably looking at. Looking at of the suction cup vibrators that have a 4inch insertable g spot stimulator but not sure if its hands free (one handed could work possibly but ideally hands free). And dont know how it’d work to use during sex because she doesnt want anything huge for whilst im also inside her
I’m not saying you’re asking for the impossible, but that’s a mighty fine list of features and requirements you’re looking for!
The only thing I can think of that’s close is the We-Vibe Sync line, but from our experience they really just don’t provide the focused clit stimulation that my wife is most interested in.
We have the Womanizer Duo 2 that wife can hold in place between her thighs while going down on me, and that internal bit may be small enough that DVP isn’t off the table with it, but it would definitely be a stretch for us.
Might also look at some different straps and binding for fixing the head of a wand right where she likes it, too.
We have a we-vibe sync, it moves about quite a bit during penetrative sex.
Should work as you thought during blow job time though.
For hands free stimulation during PIV, my best toy to date is the we-vibe pivot. An excellent quality vibrating cock ring. It has limitations though. It only works well in missionary or similar, and cowgirl.
The second limitation is fantastic - it only works for her if in constant contact with her clit. Thrusting doesn’t work well. You need to stay balls deep and grind against her vulva. I love it. My wife gets soaking wet, I can feel her vagina spasming around my cock, usually in missionary for us, with lots of kissing. It’s very intimate and she usually doesn’t take long to come. It’s a wonderful way to have sex.
Once she’s come (she doesn’t do repeat orgasms) I remove it and she makes me pound her pussy until I come too.
