Looking for a harness I can use with my OH for PIV (or would that be DIV? 
) when I am done or can’t get it up that day. Obviously I would like it to be comfortable, but more important is the ease and speed of putting it on.
I also find it a bit of a turn on that we can then select different size and shape dildos for the mood she’s in or for that matter the mood I’m for giving her a ride.
Am really interested in anyone’s thoughts on this too. I’ve been wondering if it would be possible to do DP with my wife this way, or as you said if the ‘old chap’ isn’t up for it, or if you just she wanted to try some other sizes etc without having to resort to using a suction cup on a surface or just using your hands….it seems a lot more animalistic via a strap on. I’ve seen the thigh strap on harnesses as a possibility…but otherwise I can really do see how a standard harness would accomodate someone with a penis comfortably….
We have older version of this
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/p/lovehoney-universal-strap-on-harness/73331.html
Just use for piv and find it works well I just position it so it sits above the penis. Not sure if it would work for dp though.
@Pogo69 , Lovehoney do a few different hollow harnesses which would probably fit your needs. Three just come with one standard fixed hollow dildo but this one comes with one but does look interchangeable for others too. It is by far the most expensive but does come with vibes, is apparently easy to put on and comfortable to wear and most of the negatives seem to be that the dildo is significantly sizeable and too big for some. I should say, I have no first hand experience of this strap on but, if money was no object, it would be my choice for what you’re after.
@BLovesC , for DP we have this one and a couple of other similar cock ring and dildo combos in various sizes. They work really well 
That’s kind of a blatant sales pitch but ok. I get it.
LH does have a harness for DP. The dildo is higher up and your cock below the dildo.