Hello, very new here didn’t know lovehoney had a forum.
They really are sexual happiness professionals. I love the video demos of products ! ( Well showcases lol )
So I wanted to ask community. One thing in my sex life I didn’t want to try was anal toys and sex, but I love my partner.
When I finally got comfortable I started with a small plug that was silicone. I still have it for memories.
Now I’m up to huge toys (never even thought I’d like this or get excited or to be filled up so much)
It brings us both pleasure and it’s now become a competition (well more of a slow slow journey over about 1-3 years of going up sizes)
Everytime I buy a bigger toy for my butt it’s always more of a challenge than vaginal but so worth it.
Anyway we’re both nearing the point of using huge toys that we’ve stretched out our bum enough haha.
My biggest toy (is bigger than I can handle only had it up there twice for a short time super huge silicone plug!)
My question is…
Has anyone inserted something so large over their journey that it was satisfying but it immediately made your legs shake uncontrollably! For me I couldn’t take that yet fully!
Does anyone have a huge butt plug that is comfortable when inserted for a long time, that hurts so good if that makes sense? Before I got used to it (still am this is my new favorite it’s 2.6 inch width ! )
I swear when it’s time to re lube or take it out I swear up and down I’m never going to use it again but I’m hooked and it’s exhilaration of intensity of pain so swiftly to pleasure and vice versa (still haven’t reached our ideal goal as to when we stop which is 3 in width )!
Has anyone been so committed that they’ve seen themselves gape to a level they thought years ago could never ever happen ? (I felt like a pornstar for a moment haha, so reassuring )
Does anyone have toys laying around that was small in their eyes but upon arrival your like oh no. That can fit for sure (I’m so guilty of this and buying things on a whim! Haha or out of excitement, they are on shelves just waiting until I can stretch out enough )
Anal is so harder than vaginal I didn’t think it would take years !
Where is everyone at with anal toys specifically? Any goals? Any achievements? I’ve talked about vaginal play already so wanted to hear about you and yours and this ! Also it’s nice to be part of this community!
I think quite a few people on here use big anal toys and enjoy the stretch and the amazing full feeling.
Typically I have a plug or a dildo in there every couple of days.
The biggest dildo we use is 10" long x 7" circumference (2.5" diameter).
My biggest plug is 9.5" circumference (3" diameter) and it’s a real stretch every time. If I don’t use it for a couple of weeks I have to work up to it again.
It’s strange how there is always the challenge to go bigger and bigger.
This just made my day writing this I was hesitant that this would be way to freaky and that I was absurd.
And I have about 15 anal plugs of all shapes sorts and materials materials importantly.
How do you fare with dildos? It’s difficult for me to enjoy the XL Horsecock dildo I purchased (not because it’s too big, with the amateur experience I have my plugs are bigger (it’s the length and the feeling of penetration, positioning it, etc that feels very time consuming . I’m trying to enjoy it)
I really do want your take on it, and this is even more important thanks for bringing it up, with dildos the penetration feels uncomfortable. I like plugs filling me idk why.
And thank you so much for replying and your input.
EDIT: I just got up to 2.4 and now trying 2.7 inch plug diameter it goes in it just makes me shake uncontrollably and after a little while I must take it out it’s way way too intense but I’ll get there. Congrats
The big dildos are usually attached to my wife and the length doesn’t affect the penetration at all for me (although I do wonder where the hell it’s all going).
I do ride mounted didlo and plugs too though.
My biggest dildo/plug is the Doc Johnson Titan Intimidator which is 10" long and shaped like a traffic cone. At the bottom it is 11" diameter. I have had the whole thing in a couple of times but it takes time and a lot of lube to get there. That thing fills me up and stretches me to my limit.
I have been receiving anal from my wife for over a decade now. My goal is not necessarily bigger, but over the years I have been able to take larger dildos, butt plugs and other toys from just consistently doing anal. My wife will fist me on occasion, though she is petite, still some good girth. Anal toys I bought as I was first exploring, some are now too small and don’t do anything for me any longer. Having a prostate anything that vibrates will take over the edge.
I started off with a 7- inch slim many years ago and have slowly progressed as the years have gone by…. I’ll never forgot when the 10 inch Real Rock vibrating dildo arrived on the front door step, I opened the box/packaging etc and was absolutely blown away by the size and quality of it. I did plenty of warm up before giving it a try and it was absolutely next level!!!
Fast forward about 10 years to current day and the package arrived on the door step recently with a massive 14 inch Cock and balls suction cup dildo, absolutely mind blowing I can’t go back to anything smaller now.
I was also dubious about anal play (very conservative upbringing) but now my wife and my favourite toy is our 6.5" circumference clear dildo. Usually I will just use this on myself for her viewing pleasure, but hopefully one day it will replace her usual, smaller pegging dildos. At the moment it takes a lot of patience and lube to insert, so it’s a slow process.
I love the stretch of the big dildos but they do ,literally, spoil you for the smaller toys.
Nowadays I find it difficult to keep the smaller (normal sized) butt plugs and prostate massagers inside me unless I’m sitting on them.
I have been doing anal play for years, it started with just a small buttplug of 4cm diameter, which we bought with the intention to make anal easier for the wife. But we started to use it on me, and I just loved the feeling. At first the goal was not necessarily going bigger. But the dildos and buttplugs got bigger over time each time the plug went in easier, that is when we decided to get a slightly bigger one, also each time the toys got bigger my wife could insert more fingers until she was wrist deep inside me.
Over time progressed we even to larger plugs and dildo’s the largest I currently toy own is 10.25” inches in circumference about 3.25” in diameter, not able to insert it yet but working on it. I love being streched and filled to the max, but I still love the smaller plugs as well.
WhenI started with anal over years ago I would never thought year that I would like being gaped and stretched so much.