Dear Learned forum,
My wife and I are happily married. No philandering or such. But we are not exactly sexually adventurous. I would like to organise a threesome. This would be planned with an experienced escort, maybe male or female. I do not want this to be someone we know or ever have to meet again. I would like ground rules. Mainly I would like to see my wife having a new experience.
I am not sure how to introduce this fantasy, let alone execute the whole thing.
Any suggestions ideas?
M
First of all, do you know what your wifes thoughts about this is? Have you talked with her about it?
Hiring an escort can cost a lot of money, so make sure your wife knows about it prior, as you tend to have to pay for the services upfront regardless on what happens during the session.
I suggest chatting with your wife and then searching for an escort in your local area together. Many will have profiles up on various listing sites so you can get a feel about what kind of services they are willing to offer and what unique traits they have too.
We have talked about it and what puts the OH off is where she has been before. In saying that, Adultzone advertses some gorgeous looking eastern european women, and one headlining as 'Sexy Amarisa' from Swindon has the looks and body to die for
It may never happen - but never say never!
You should both sit down and talk about it. As for the price there is always swingers who are often looking for just this. You could travel a little outside of your local area so you wont run into them again.
Never done on that way, always wes easier to find some chick online or pick in club...
But idea about hiring escort is not bad at all, you don't have any obligations for 3rd person in that case.
Before I forget, there's other options too. You could pay for an intimate massage, where both of you get massaged at the same time, but don't actually have a threesome involve penetration or anything (although some tantric and massage people do other extra services too).
=) it's just an idea, and might be nicer for you both, but still playing along the similar idea and helping to fule fantasies more.
First talk with your wife, discuss what you want to happen then ask her views and/or ideas, once you have agreed on boundaries, ground rules - look for someone together (if you search escorts in swindon (or which ever area you are based)) you will find plenty of adult sites/escort agencies/massage parlours, plus looking for someone together will make it a more intimate experience as you have picked both picked a suitable 'play mate'
9/10 there is a 'likes' list on the escort/escort profile - look for someone who OFFERS this service and who also offers protected sex only (most professionals don't have unprotected sex with anyone and get checked regularly)
thanks all for advice.
Will speak to her but i want to plan this to happen in 2 years time so need to get gears in place.
Has anyone done it this way? I like the idea of this being an impersonal service, while being professional, so it is done properly.
niceguy wrote:
thanks all for advice.
Will speak to her but i want to plan this to happen in 2 years time so need to get gears in place.
Has anyone done it this way? I like the idea of this being an impersonal service, while being professional, so it is done properly.
I have seen couples before as a adult sex educator, although I don't sleep with my clients, just guide them and educate their bodies mpvements, which sometimes require me to use my hands.
I know it's a bit different, but some of them almost see it like a thresome.... just educational and more.
Thanks Nymphomaniac for the advice.
But I do want us to experience a threesome.