Has your partner ever really surprised you with an unexpected turn on or fantasy? I know I have thrown a few curves at my wife over the years but once she confided she had a rape fantasy. It’s not something I fantasized about and I was really surprised she was interested in this given she had experienced abuse many years ago. I think we have done this roll play twice now. Still not really something I am into but can play along when she is in the right mindset for it. Lots of discussion before and after but I still haven’t teased out what the appeal is for her on this one. Has your OH ever thrown you a curve ball you weren’t expecting?
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She claims that she has no fantasies or unfulfilled desires but she has surprised me a lot recently with her willingness to adopt quite radical changes and introductions to our sexual relationship.
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My OH is very much the same. We have the LH “Oh!” Board Game and one of the cards is about fantasies. Whenever I pull that Q to ask her, she always tells me she has none, but then when I come up with ideas she is all game to oblige.
No complaints from me, if she doesn’t have her own fantasies and wants to play out mine… I’m all for that
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For me it was first time I saw him naked and then saw his penis - he was a shy man / but what a massive cock
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i think the time i was genuinely suprised was when we started dating, we where still working out eachothers body in a nice and slow way… and then i found a metal cock cage under the tv unit in the front room.
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I’d love to have the experience of a partner surprising me with things and being adventurous 
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I think the only time he really has surprised me, was the first time I put my hand around his cock (I grabbed before I saw it) I was really surprised and shocked by his size. He is by far the biggest I’ve been with.
When we spoke about about our fantasies and kinks nothing took me by surprise really.
I think I took him by surprise saying I like him being dominant and me being the submissive - considering my past.
And watersports, he thought I was joking about it at first, but he enjoys doing it now.
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I was still new to sex, and I was totally shocked by my GF’s obsession with my need to ejaculate. She likes watching it, likes her friends to watch it, and likes to make me do it at random. I guess most vagina-owners don’t make nearly the amount of sticky creamy stuff that I do. Not my favorite thing, but not much I can do about it.
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Be careful what you wish for. Surprises can be either good or bad.
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I am generally the initiator of sex, but my wife has surprised me many times:
- Took me to a sex shop in our early days, selected a vibrator and when we got home told me she could make herself come ten times with it. Then said, “want me to prove it?” (what a great night - she got up to 8
) - Asked me if I would be okay for her to read erotic literature to me, and added apologetically (as if this was a problem), “I only like ‘girl on girl’ though”
- Recently asked me on a date whilst eating churros, “shall we save this chocolate sauce so you can lick it off my tits later?”
- Asked me how far I could see without my glasses when we were in the shower, and added, “if you knelt on the floor in front of my pussy, could you see me rubbing it, while you have a wank?”
A few of my faves 
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A couple of times. Once she asked me to put my hands on her throat, and another she was giving me oral, and put my hand on the back of her head. Both times I asked her about it afterwards, but she never likes talking about sex like that - I just like to know what she wants, and what her limits are.
Oh hell yes! I’ve had enough of the bad ones to know whenever I wish to say good surprises lol 
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Yes, twice.
First, our wedding night, though not a fantasy. My OH is quite a shy guy, a gentle soul, you’d never really suspect anything of him. He’d read my diary once, including the part when I’d referred to him as a “sex god”, we laughed about it and no more was said. Anyway, our wedding night five years later, I moved to get into bed and I noticed that he was wearing boxers with “sex god” on them. I was surprised, but he was oh so proud of himself!
The other was during sex. I told him that he was being so rough it was like I was having sex with a stranger, not my husband. He got really into it, calling me a whore and handling me in ways that he wouldn’t normally do. It was positively tantric, with him stopping and starting and making it last. I forgot everything: my name, where I was, what was around me - I completely let go.
Yeah, it’s definitely the quiet ones.
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Yes. My wife surprised me when she admitted liking bondage and being restrained. It previously wasn’t my thing, but it is now. I went out and bought gear for our bedroom. I can tie her to the bed at a moment’s notice.
A girl I dated had a kink for male asses. Which I discovered after I took off my pants and she buried her face in my cheeks and licked me until I came voluminously. I should have guessed she liked asses, because she would finger her own after I took care of her in bed.
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My husband surprised me when he told me he had made a reservation for us at a sex hotel in Germany.
What a two night stay we had. The room was amazing. Sex swing, water bed, leather sofa, sex bench in the walk in shower and a floor to ceiling pole for me to dance for him! There was even a goody bag containing condoms lube and a mini vibrator.
I’m not telling you where this was but there are surprisingly quite a few sex hotels in Germany. Just Google to see what’s on offer in the land of kinky.