The comment from r3k is spot on.
That if you chase it too hard it will elude you.
I have experienced mid blowing a-gasms but can never predict when they’ll happen.
For me it the best and the feeling lasts for ages, up and down in waves.
My way is total undisturbed privacy.
Totally relax
Focus on down there
I leave my cock alone as it distracts from the action
Take your time (sometimes a good session can last all night)
Find the toy and the mode that’ll bring you on
Some great toys just don’t work for me - its personal!
For me slow, quiet, rumbly waves does it for me.
Everyone is different (natch) so go the journey - the rewards are sublime! Good luck!
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