Felt good and he felt it too. He said id never trust or love anyone to try bum play. He asked me did I think it was weird and I just melted as I was the one who was worried about what he would think.
Literally surrendering to him and focusing on breathing deeply into my tits, pussy or ass (depending on where ye was) really intensified it. I was literally dripping
Very true @KinkyMira the relationship will evolve from here and so will your enjoyment and experience.
By the way your blog totally got me in the mood yesterday.
Oh, glad to have been of service. 
xx
Amazing! You have followed your instincts and look where you ended up… amazing! Well done! Now, start enjoying again 
Don’t tell him, just put it in and surprise him, maybe valentines day, just say you’ve been practising with it in secret ready for the big day, if he loves you he’ll appreciate the effort you’ve put in and most probably find it really hot!!
He won’t know what to do with himself if she bent over to reveal it.
Great to hear - so happy for you xx
If he is like most of us men he will love it, mostly he will love that u love sex and will encourage you to be free to open up more, good idea will be to ask him if he has any fantasies or sexual kinks that he would like to try. (perhaps put some limits in place first). He will probably ask you if you want anal sex. i know i would.
That answer would be yes 
So all ur advice is paying off…i am having a morning break in work aftet getting up at 6 am and im smiling to myself, distracted from my cup of coffee thinking about my marathon sex sesh with my husband. We started with 2 hours of unreal foreplay with bjs, fingering and lots of my favourite titty play (could do this for hours). He whips me around slips in a finger to my ass slowly working to not 2 but 4 fingers and slapping my ass, what a turn on….. I got him to wank himself and now I can see why ye like watching ur OH masterbate. After a snooze I was again woken at 3am with some serious nipple play from behind and again the feeling of lube smeared along my hole. I felt like I was in heaven…. Then during some massively turn me on sex talk whispered I each other’s ears he mentioned buying me a butt plug cause anal turned me on so much…. We tried putting his cock in but after already cumming earlier it was not meant to be and the fingering made another grand entrance.
So thank you all for your advice and making me feel I could make this happen as I think my butt plug will make an appearance this week to him. Feeling nicely fucked today with yet again throbbing nipples and a tingling pussy waiting to be filled and hopefully whatever is meant to fill it will slip into the wrong hole
Ps my colleague told me I looked so glowy this morning, and did I get a facial
Yes! Anything bum related scared me so much. I think more than anything felt embarrassed. Until I realised it’s nothing to be embarrassed about and he actually really likes it too. (On me). I could tell him till we were all hot and heavy one night and I wanted it so bad that i had to tell him and ask if we could try it. Now it’s regular (well whenever we do it anyway)
I hear u loud and clear. In fact I enjoyed telling him what to do and he loved it too. Now to master the movement in there cause I’m trying to figure how I like it. In and out didn’t quite feel right but sitting in the with pressure was bliss. Have u any tips??? lots of lube is a must
Tell him you are thinking of ordering some things on LH ( order some other things as a cover) …they are a surprise for him.
When they arrive, show him the butt plug as part of what you ordered…get something specific for him…. Silicone masterbation aid for example.
Might open up a whole new chapter in your sex life…good luck.
Sorry , just read back in your thread….so glad you had a great time….the silicone masterbation aid is great fun incidentally.
For me it’s kind of a set and forget (positioning only). Put it in and grab a dildo or hubby will f@#k me. The combo of him and the plug, or anything and the plug is amazing. And feels so full. Ooh definitely try it with a vibrator (g spot egg is great). All my anal toys are used differently to each other though.
Would u recommend the egg over a plug vibrator….. must look at how an egg works…
Good idea about position and set… could be my most frequent phrase ill use
They all feel different, so it really comes down to what you like.
I go through phases of what toys and areas feel best. I personally prefer a metal plug over silicone.
I don’t have a vibrating plug, I do have a dual vibrator…I probably prefer the plug to the vibe though.
@Sunshine3 love that the outcome was a positive one !! Sounds like a great session
This is the best news! I love this for you!
Anal is all bout experimentation to learn what feels good. Could you maybe look at getting some toys such as a dildo or two to use on yourself anally?
I always suggest anal masturbation as a great way to explore as you can experiment with different rhythms of stimulation, different positions etc. Maybe even involve hubby for some mutual masturbation and just explore what feels good.