I see them both as the same, obviously there is physically difference but when my partner fucks me, he is still making love to me, and when we are slow sexing, he is still fucking me =/
i don't know if that makes sense though
even if we're having disgusting degrading sex we are still making love because yanno... we love each other and even if we are taking it slow, it still feels awesome, so i'm still being fucked
i apologise for the lots of language there guys but i felt it was needed to get my point across?
as for which i prefer... hmm i think i prefer the rough stuff, because the love is still there and its so intense i could die and be happy :]
Some times lots of slow kissing and caressing while having some hard but slow and firm thrusts while legs are locked is very sexy and romantic.
This made me think, this thread shows that the context is no clue as to which you are doing (if you even want to compatmentalize sex in that way) I've had the long, slow variety on a one nighter but also a dirty quickie when I'm committed to a person. Vice versa too and one variety can easily slide into the other.
Personally I do love having a rampant session, falling asleep and then hours later you have bleary eyes, sleepy, Four in the Morning sex.
For me it depends on the mood and time we have. Sometimes I like lovemaking and sometimes I like a fuck. I suppose the best type is starting off slowly and then going hard and fast at the end.
For me it depends on the mood and time we have. Sometimes I like lovemaking and sometimes I like a fuck. I suppose the best type is starting off slowly and then going hard and fast at the end.