Just bought the Njoy Pure Wand. From what I read it hits the prostate and blows you away. I’ll be dammed if I can hit it !
What am I doing wrong please ?
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I’ve got a prostate massager and I find it’s very further forward than u realise have a look online to where u should be using it 
everyone can be slightly different I guess maybe it just not getting that perfect spot for u. Keep trying and good luck
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there is a really good P-spotting thread here. with lots of tips. worth a read
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Yes that above article is really good. I’ve found mine and can milk it and get closer to the super o but even playing and milking my prostrate during solo play is good.
I find mine with toys. My wife can actually find and feel mine with her fingers.
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I have a big toy collection, out of all them i found that the steel hook finds it easily. (I ordered it from here)
Another toy is from here. Its the blue doc johnson. Bright blue all smooth.
For me its mainly just exploring yourself and youll find it
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Medical professionals say the Prostate is about 5cm or fingers length inside the rectum positioned towards the penis area.
Maybe you need to give it some more time to explore positions or techniques?
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Gey a bit deeper. I find precum and milking when I’m about 5.5 to 6.50pm inches deep and up towards my belly button.
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Very interesting… maybe prostates can be in different positions?!…
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mine’s pretty deep in, I find my own fingers won’t do the job.
I started with this, https://www.lovehoney.ca/sex-toys/vibrators/g-spot-vibrators/p/lovehoney-g-slim-g-spot-vibrator-black/a2008g70634.html , slim enough to manoeuvre safely until you find your happy place.
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I read some more articles saying it’s 2 inches in but can very - 2 inches isn’t even the whole length of my middle finger probably two joints of it.
Earlier I tried both my middle fingers, come hither, tapping, circles moved around 2 inches in then whole middle finger in and couldn’t feel it and couldn’t get any pre cum out in either position I tried.
Hard plastic aneros progasm put it all the way in and got pre cum straight away and moved it around and got more milking out so mines definitely in further than my finger.
My wife has shorter fingers than me and has given me a few prostrate massages, but I think the pre cum from her doing it is more mental rather than her actually being on my prostrate. Will get her to try again though 
That’s going in pretty deep isn’t it?
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I wonder if it’s location shifts or changes depending on the position you were in? What I mean is, if you are standing I wonder if it is lower, maybe if you were on all fours it is in a different place, and if you are laying on your back it is in yet a different place. I have no idea, just wondering. Maybe some anatomy expert on here can answer
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@DeerHunter @Analizer deepest toy I’ve used is the Lovehoney 7 inches glass beaded dildo and LH silicone suction base 7 inches curved dildo. Depth was fine didn’t feel any discomfort or anything and didn’t lose the toys 
I go in a few inches and no pre cum prostate milking then go in a bit deeper maybe 5.5 to 6 inches seems to get the most pre cum prostate milking out which is quite deep compared to all the anatomy reports.
I’ve tried laying on my back flat, on back legs up against wall, on side, on front, on all fours, sitting down (pretty good) standing up (also pretty good).
Very interrsting. And yes I agree, that is deeper than any anatomy report would suggest. I believe I typically go deeper than they suggest as well. I plan to pay closer attention the next time I do some prostate play
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I had to have the usual prostate exam and to my embarrassment had a student as well as the GP.
Lying on my side they both had to get into some odd position to reach it. I was trying to notice when both said they were checking it and I couldn’t feel anything in particular. Obviously I was mortified rather than horny so maybe that makes a difference, but I thought I’d at least be able to tell.
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I’m having the same trouble finding mine. I’ve only just started exploring around there. I’ve tried fingers and have got myself a LH ignite which is 2.75” insertable but not getting the experience others on here are getting. I do get a small amount of extra pleasure if I do this while masturbating. I’m just wondering if mines located higher up and need something bigger
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