My wonderful loving husband has lost the ability to ejaculate and it's really getting him down. He's always had problems with it but now it's getting worse and he can't cum with me in anyway at all.
He says he thinks it's a sensation thing (I keep more than on top of my pelvic floor exercises so not sure it's me that's the problem)
What can I do to help him and what can he do to help himself?
I agree with the previous post.I think he should see a doctor.
Yea so do I. There could be any number of things preventing it. The only way to get a stright answer would be from the Doc :) xx
Can he ejaculate when he masterbates? If he struggles when havng sex it may be performance anxiety type stuff...
HTH
May also be death grip if he can when masterbating but not during sex. It's a really common problem - men get so used to the strength, grip and speed of their hand they find it difficult to come with the weaker sensations provided during sex. It's solved simply by not masterbating and eventually the feeling for sensations should return x
If he can't ejaculate at all, definitely see a doctor could be a problem and best to rule it out xx
Damn my auto-correct why does it think that's a word......
As others have said if it's during sex is consider other options until the the sensation returned. But if it's nothing at all I'd see a doctor!
If he's comfortable with the the idea, try a prostate massage while gently licking and kissing.. That is if he CAN ejaculate with masturbation. This could lead to a satisfying, earth shattering end result.
In the case of no ejaculation at all, I concur with the others here. A doctor is totally the way forward.
Good luck to you both