Hi all. I’m a 47 year old and want to get my sass back…I’ve recently bought a vibrating butt plug that’s pretty cool and does the job but a bit slim. Got an aluminium butt plug yesterday 1.25” and disappointed as I’d like to wear it for a while but I couldn’t even feel it. Have ye any suggestions as I thought it would gove me that erotic sensation but it doesn’t….
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Your other post was a little less descriptive than this and it’s good to see you are exploring options but what exactly are you hoping for? There are many types and sizes of plugs to try for one.
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Sounds like a good starting point! Maybe you need to go a little bigger if it’s feeling too small?
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It’s funny u ask cause I don’t know if it’s the feeling of adventure and doing something noone knows about or is it wanting to feel on the verge of an orgasm and trying to hide it in public iykwim. I couldn’t feel anything….. put it in in the changing room and went around town and nothing…. Maybe I need a bigger one but not sure on size etc to move too or type….
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Thanks so 1.5”??? From reading here I’m wondering should I try beads or another type of butt plug… I’d like to wear it for a while during the day and to feel kinky. Is that the feeling they can give or is it just a feeling of fullness??? new to this and already jealous of the bigger butt plug wearers
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You could give beads a try and see how it goes but I’ve not known them to be the type of toy others wear for a long period. Maybe you need a buttplug that is a bit bigger and vibrates …
I sense the sensations and experience you’re aiming for will also be vastly mindset based too… so getting turned on by the thoughts of using and wearing a toy.
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Have spent more time experimenting with my butt plug and yes I finally have found the love for it… so much so I had a lil fool around with it on my lunch break today …. Much nicer then just leaving it in. Think a bigger one for that purpose will “hit the spot nicely” but will go 1.8” and skip the 1.5
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A much larger plug (especially stainless stell), during prolonged wear, has more weight, so you’ll definitely feel it more when going about day things.
I’ve never worn one, but I assume the neck will be equally slim, so probably little change there.
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That’s the other thing I wanted to ask. I read to be catrful of the jewelled ones disappearing up your bum… is that a real danger???
Ya I think the weight will make a difference. Excited thinking about it
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We’ve had a few forum members who described that happening to them.
They all mentioned pushing it back out without going to A&E. At the end of the day, if it can go in naturally, it’s able to make it back out too.
But plugs with T bars are better in that respect, quite rare with stainless steel plugs though.
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Sounds like great results!!
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What are your thoughts on this. I got a 1.25 diameter butt plug and it slips in and out easily. I can fit 2 fingers in with it. If there no butt plug 4 fingers fit.
Would a 2.1inch diametre butt plug be nice a cosy???
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I bought this one and honestly didn’t expect much but it has quickly and unexpectedly become my favourite.
The vibrations with this are amazing, it’s a seriously underrated product. I keep hoping they will make larger sizes. I think it’s 3.5” from memory and the silicone is really soft and luxurious feeling.
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I have a vibrating one that size but different shape……my batteries are gone and looking for the batteries but can find them in the shop so must order online. I really want to try it when I’m having sex
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Have many towels under you to protect the bed from potential wonderful eruptions
That sounds super promising 
The fullness feeling and tightness of both holes been filled means it can wonderfully stimulate the g spot and a spot (woman’s prostate equivalent zone). Hope it’s enjoyable. Lube and time.
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I know I’m a bit late to this thread, but I had a few thoughts…
If you’re worried about ‘losing’ the plug, go for a t-bar shaped base, they’re more comfortable too.
Glass plugs are nice if you haven’t tried one! Hard materials like glass and metal feel bigger than silicone and soft materials. If you go for silicone, you might want to look for bigger sizes than you would for glass and metal.
Is it plugs that you’re particularly interested in? If you’re open to other ideas, you might prefer a dildo if moving the plug around is more enjoyable than leaving it in place.
When I started playing with anal toys, I skipped to ‘medium’ sized toys because I didn’t feel the need to use small ones. Most people like to start small and work up but you might not be one of them!