Help going up sizes glass buttplug M - L

TLDR: been trying to move up to a bigger glass plug and it keeps hurting my butt cheeks like the side, advice? also I went from the small to medium and I love the medium Edited by mod Is it because of the shape of the glass? Ive been trying and practicing everyday. Any advice also on how to speed up taking a bigger plug asap, again I try every day if possible for long periods

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In my effort of anal training I went up a size to a L anal glass plug! I love my medium one already and can wear it all day and its nice that I am getting a bit loose ( so this wasn’t a set but you do buy from S, M, L )

I was under the impression that they gradually increase ( and I thought I would be ready even after speculum play :open_mouth: for the L ) I tried so hard but gentle I just wanted to feel that bliss when it goes in for the first time,

I really think the issue is the shape because the mushroom hurts my asscheeks its weird LOL. I also just got K-Lube and I am absolutely loving it, any advice to go the medium to large or tips? I am intermediate and been doing anal for years with plugs and my ass has gotten looser but not as much as I want yet.

I’ve been trying to stretch for like 2 years slowly and its getting frustrating now, what can I do to help please…

Been so horny I

  • I ordered new heels today
  • new lingerie
  • new slutty rainbow socks <3
  • new outfits
  • new panties and thongs

Back to my toys I go lovelies :sparkles:

Thank you!

EDIT: Tried one more time and failed, also sorry about the pics ill list the dimensions sorry

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If you gradually want to stretch yourself, this is one of the best you can buy economically too
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/butt-plugs/large-butt-plugs/p/doc-johnson-titanmen-intimidator-anal-plug-10-inch/a17540g21470.html
Note males often cant take large hard plugs due to our bone structure females are blessed with being able to take much bigger ones so you may find you need a softer plug, i cant take the end of a wine bottle but can my 4+" dia huge squishy plug

Thanks for the great advice, I do feel pretty bummed out because I thought I was ready and was looking forward to it :\ and ironically I have that toy. I just never use it because of the PVC

I am loving this K-Lube! WAY better than J-Lube and it comes off like fisting gel oh my!

Thank you though. I have a fanatic thing with plugs not so much dildos to be honest… what do you reccommend only during sex its deep with my partner but thats his cock not a large toy.

Thank you, I actually might just stay up and pull an all nighter to enjoy myself. I did try one more time to no avail and put in my medium one again as well as playing ( because of so much responsibilities it truly sucks I have to stay up on the nights just to dress kinky and do things smh)

Thank you!

If you’re having trouble with the base of the plug being too wide between your cheeks you might be better with a plug with a T bar base.

Hi @Penelope25 , nothing wrong with the photos other than where you posted them. I would suggest popping them directly in Images to share in topics and they will be approved during UK working hours when Brenna is next working and can then be linked.

If the base is the part you are finding uncomfortable, I agree with @rockstar and would suggest trying a plug with a T-bar base.

If you’re worried about the pvc( personally ive never had an issue or worry) then just use a condom over it problem solved?
The toy is a great progression toy not steps up in sizes that you might find wont fit(at more cost) thats why i often post it, might look scary big but used with caution its fine for anyone used to a “medium” size butt plug

No I was up all night doing work and failed with my larger plug but it feels so comfortable I can handle other things the whole night without discomfort and I don’t even wanna go into detail I’m just gonna use the titan man that I did buy many moons ago…

I’m glad I did get to have fun all last night because I usually don’t get to play

I’ll keep trying, also when I did try the photos it said it wasn’t allowed and gave me an error in this particular thread.

I’ll report back after I shower and eat, I just took my plug out too (didn’t want to and it has been like 20 hrs lmao )

But yeah it is a climb ty guys

You need to be at trust level 2 to upload photos, you’re currently at trust level 1.

I have this plug and find it really hard to get passed the widest part of it, yet my partner is much bigger and I can take him much easier :woman_shrugging:t2:

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Thank you that makes so much sense right now now, okay okay and YES mines look very similar to that the widest part hurts (not in the conventional way, it is glass and it is WIDE pressing against my very tender parts :frowning: , and yes, I did have an intimidator before and really liked it. When house renovations were going on it got thrown away along with other things (not toy releated but after that I just moved on to try new materials, I my buy it again its the most economical option

would anyone know if DILATORS are good? I had a ballistic metal anal stretching ring and its solid metal and I enjoy it (just have to make sure your empty LOL , not they come with stoppers though )

So you trying to say my but is flat :open_mouth: , I am still struggling with weight its not my fault its medicine side effects ontop of stress and everything.

I really thank you for clarifying.

And right now I have " Doc Johnson Titanmen - Anal Stretcher - 6 Inch Vac-U-Lock Compatible Expansion Plug" I believe I will try that, its not like the intimidator its smaller but it should help.

What? I didn’t mention your butt. I only spoke of my experience of also not being able to get passed a certain point on a plug.

You’re absolutely right sweetheart I did read it wrongs. :frowning: :frowning: Sometimes I can just go though life so quickly. :frowning: double sad face. How are you.

Sorry in advance for 2 things.

  1. this comment on a thread about anal struggles, this must have been intentional:

Whether it was or wasn’t, it was still great.

  1. I have nothing to add other than this.

Either way, I hope you get it in the end.