Help please :-) Choosing a dildo for my wife.

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Hi all.

My wife recently told me she loves it when I fuck her pussy with big things. Since then I have bought her 4 dildos.

  • The first was a 7" vibrator, she liked that.
  • The second was an 8" jelly type, she liked that more :)
  • The third was a 12" vibrating one which was thicker. With that I found out how long she likes which is about 7" insertable but it was a little uncomfortable for her (kindof cheap plastic).
  • The fourth is the prince charming dildo which she loves. Perfect length and nice and thick and good material but it seems she could still take larger.

It's noticeable now that the thicker the toy, the quicker and more intense her orgasms (lots of them!) come.

So my question is does anyone know a way I can find out how big I should get without continually buying just a little bit bigger. I don't mind spending some money of course but it could get very expensive that way.

I realise the obvious answer is to ask her but I like to surprise her with a variety of sexy toys and I can tell from her reactions that she also likes the surprise :) Also I found from a recent visit to a sex shop together she doesn't really like choosing for herself.

Any help, especialy from ladies who have found their own perfect size toy would be greatly appreciated :)

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The prince charming dildo has the follwoing stats...

How it measures up

  • Length: 8.25 inches
  • Insertable: 6.5 inches
  • Circumference: 6.25 inches
  • Diameter: 2.0 inches
  • Harness compatible: Yes
  • Fits o-ring diameter: 2 inches
  • Base type: Flat

So when you search for new toys if you read the size info on the product you should be able to see if it matches up well with the one she likes already Hope this helps x

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Yes it does help, thanks :)

What I'd really like to know though is how to find out how much bigger than that she will like without going too far.

ty again.

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ooo i see what you mean! I shall have a nosey at some products :) x

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http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=6456

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=770

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15110

Maybe try those, all about the size she wants inserted with bigger girths and all 4 star + ratings x

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The toy joy dazzling looks pretty good. How about thicker still? How do I know what would be too thick?

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Maybe buy one like http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=3806 and see how she gets on and if its too big then go for one of the previously mentioned ones or similar? x

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http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2473 woah! x

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Thanks again. Good, quick service round here I must say

I just looked at that last one, is it a toy or a murder weapon? Mind you some of the reviews are good so you never know.

And of course thats back to my original question, how to find out how big to go before buying. Any suggestions anyone?

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well put as much as your hand in that she can take and measure around it that will give you the circumference

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thats not a bad idea, anyone know anything else i could use?

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what ever she fancies but lube it first

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Not larger as such but it has a great handle which means you or her can control it with pinpoint accuracy! The shaft widens and has a texture where it will press on the g-spot too - it is great fun that I can't recommend enough hun!

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17002&reviewid=23254#customer_reviews

x

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Get an inflatable one so you can do it to suit? x

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still not sure, maybe I'll try the dazzling one...

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Thing is Simon, there's no way for any of us to know how big she'll be able to take without discomfort, it really is just a case of trial and error! Not everyone is built the same or has the same pain threshold.

Going slowly bigger and bigger really is the best way to do it, I would imagine if the first toy you bought her had been massive she'd have been totally intimidated and not able to take it -- the same will happen if you take a big jump now! Best of luck :)

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*Emma* wrote:

Get an inflatable one so you can do it to suit? x

This sounds like a great bit of advice!!External Media

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shellyboo wrote:

Thing is Simon, there's no way for any of us to know how big she'll be able to take without discomfort, it really is just a case of trial and error! Not everyone is built the same or has the same pain threshold.

Going slowly bigger and bigger really is the best way to do it, I would imagine if the first toy you bought her had been massive she'd have been totally intimidated and not able to take it -- the same will happen if you take a big jump now! Best of luck :)

Thanks Shellyboo. Everything you said there sounds about right External Media

And ty again emma for the product suggestions, I'm gonna order this one: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=6456 and see how it goes from there.

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*Emma* wrote:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2473 woah! x

I though that one was scary untill I saw this - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=7238

Although I don't know much about dildos, Emma has made some great recommendations and from reading her other reviews has convinced me to buy a sqweel lol so I'd trust her on this too. The one you've chosen looks good and has gret reviews too.

Hope you lady likes it.

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I'd get her the Tommy Gunn Ultra realistic. It's 6.5" in circumference. It would be a good toy to possibly get her interested in big dildo play.