@Moodymopar18
I might add that PE is not always a problem for us.
I think that, sometimes, PE can be caused by my state of mind - a psychological reaction - visual and auditory cues as a trigger for a premature release.
However, a physical condition, such as an oversensitive glans, is a different matter. That is where substances, such as benzocaine, can be useful in de-sensitizing the glans thereby helping to prolong sex and delaying ejaculation.
In my case, I think it is a combination of the mental and physical.
I (and Mrs H) am pleased to share that, after prolonged use of the Durex Extended Pleasure and Durex Mutual Climax latex condoms (I recommended in my previous post), I eventually got my “Mojo” back.
I think that a lot of the time with me (and my suffering a period of PE), it was down to a vicious, downward spiral. The more I became anxious not to come, the quicker I did so. I became over concerned about lasting longer and satisfying Mrs H. She was so understanding and patient, but that did not help with my feeling of inadequacy. And so, this impacted on my mental state further and resulted in my despair and falling deeper down the downward spiral. The harder I tried, the greater the dissatisfaction resulted.
After extended use of the Benzocaine (and its de-sensitising effects), I gradually began to last longer. This in turn gave me greater confidence and overcome the mental barrier I’d created.
Little by little, in time, I began to feel that I could perform for longer. Like my former self, I am now able to last well over 15 minutes - sometimes I can go all night and not come. Mrs H now comments that she wished I would come after she has enjoyed her orgasms … but she isn’t complaining.