http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8436
Bought this vibrating butt plug as my first anal toy. I love the sensation of using the plug while having vaginal sex, but I am having a tough time keeping it in. I have read every thread I can find on anal plugs. I can't decide if it pops out during sex due to me being tight(as I am a newbie) or if it because there isn't a big enough space between the bulb section and the base. Has anyone used this toy during sex with success? Advise please!
I would say it's probably that the neck isn't that much smaller than the widest part of the toy. Not too sure on how you could fix that, does it stay in when you're not having sex? Could maybe try different positioning/be a bit more slow/gentle? Don't think it would stop it altogether, but could help if you don't want to give up on the toy.
I could be wrong but when butt plugs pop out during sex doesn't that mean you need a bigger one?
That's what I've heard people on here say anyway.
I've not tried that particular plug, but it does look like it has virtually no neck, which would make it difficult to retain. Sorry, I know that's not really much help...
I find this sort of shave plug stays in better during sex hun. http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32147
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Haha...
I now have in my mind the image of a butt plug in need of a shave... it's a rather disturbing sight!
Haha! Oh god! Bloody autocorrect!
Thanks Lollipop. I will have to try that toy. At this point, it's not the filling aspect of the plug that I like but the vibration, so the ball inside that one could be fun. I am still very new and everything is very tight and slightly uncomfortable at this point. I think I have a tough time relaxing which is making it easy to squeeze my current toy out... Oh and I loved the shave typo by the way. It gave me a good laugh! :)
Lovebirds_x I haven't tried it when not having sex yet. Being turned on definately helps me relax enough to try it. I will maybe try it during oral sex or mastrubation to see. Thank you
AnalLover wrote:
I've not tried that particular plug, but it does look like it has virtually no neck, which would make it difficult to retain. Sorry, I know that's not really much help...
That is helpful. As this is my frst attempt at anal play, I was clueless as what to buy. So now I know I need to look for a plug with a longer neck.... Thanks!
this happens to me too but I have the bedtime bullet. I don't know why.
This is my favourite: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16665
OH has mastered the way of inserting it into me in a single move - so long as it's well lubed when I"m riding her. Manages to stay in no matter how hard we go at it