It’s super hot.
Take charge of your pleasure.
I adore my wife when she does 
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There’s nothing wrong with pleasuring yourself during PIV sex. It’s something you should practice if it delivers an orgasm. As others have said it’s super hot and no doubt your boyfriend will think the same. Discuss it with him is my advice.
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I most of the time use a vibrator simultaneously during piv sex, and my husband doesn’t mind at all 
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I have never orgasmed from PIV alone… and there has never been an issue when I’ve helped things along for myself.
I don’t think many partners would mind actually.
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PIV alone never does it for me. I have absolute knee tremblers when I am on top and play with my clit, go for it, your partner will love to feel you come while they are inside
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I think it’s perfectly ok to slide a hand down.
I would rather the honesty in saying you need the help rather than have sex but crave more or not enjoy it.
The pleasure needs to be for both people.
It’s also so hot to see a woman enjoy herself on top of me.
So I say, give it a go in front of him and see his reaction.
If he doesn’t like it, ask why?
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For me it would be a huge turn on if my OH was to do that. Hasnt happened yet but I hope she will be comfortable enough some day to do so.
I have used a wand during PIV results are awesome but its hard to do and keep a rhythm going.
This was exactly how we made the breakthrough.
Since she rarely orgasmed through PIV or anal I would hold a vibrator on her clitoris while I was inside her. Sometimes though it would be awkward or difficult to get and keep the vibrator in the right spot so in the end I passed it to her to operate. She was reluctant at first but when she realised how much more effective it was, how much more control she had and how much I enjoyed it too she took over completely.
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Pretty sure this was mentioned in another thread. I’m happy with whatever gets my partner off so suggest you either guide his hand or do it yourself. I personally love it watching her bring herself over the edge and we often combine penetration with some toys on her clit. If she uses a wand then I often get some added vibes along my shaft which can bring us to a combined orgasm which is perfect!
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Hi Sammy-Jo
Having sex or making love is all about mutual enjoyment. If you need to stimulate yourself during PIV to reach an orgasm then your OH should be fine about it. If he isn’t then you really should talk to each other.
Good Luck
I wouldn’t think it would be an issue… I’ve done it to myself, but I prefer a partner’s hand. I’m not shy about making sure that happens, as I will grab the hand I need and put it on the right spot 
. Not difficult to figure out…2 hard inches are pretty obvious.
I swear down now. Your boyfriend will love it if you slip your hand down. I promise you he will love it
That’s good that I also enjoy that. What I enjoy more is sliding a finger in whilst I’m inside. It’s like someone it pressing my penis hard and it’s such a turn on
When we do have sex that it 
I always tell her to rub her clit… Especially doing doggy as i find it hard to reach around.