Just thought id drop by and say hi and I've just the forums this morning.
Im currently pregnant and super horny all the time which my partner is loving! Looking for some toys etc to continue to spice things up so any suggestions welcome!
Placed 2 orders on the past 2 days so cant wait to start trying them out!
Hi amd welcome to the forums. I am sure there is plenty we could suggest to you but it would be easier if you give us a hint about your likes/dislikes. Things your interested in exploring and also budget.
We have recently starting experimenting more with toys, own a rabbit, male masturbator, various couples kits inc bullets, cock rings etc. Interested in trying out some bondage but not sure where's a good starting point!
Well we are not much of a bondage couple i am afraid, the only thing i could suggest is the silk restraints
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33637
Used on a double bed and they were plenty long enough and they are supper soft as well.
There will be plenty of people here though that can point you in the right direction. Best of luck.
Hi and welcome 🙂
We like a bit of gentle mucking about that maybe just qualifies as bondage. We love these restraints as they have super-soft cuffs and can be adjusted to fit lots of different positions -
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19809
We also have a tickler, a flogger (a very soft one), a riding crop, and some masks. Generally we use them in very much of a 'pissing about' way, but they're really good fun.
Thanks for the tips, was looking at the silk restraints earlier. Just want something we can use to add to excitement in foreplay more than anything else. Not looking for anything hardcore!
Definitely start with gentle restraints, and bear in mind that you're much more prone to injury during pregnancy, so comfort is key :D Good luck
Hey and welcome onboard! If your new to bondage then it’s best to stick to a few starter accessories. A blindfold, a basic restraint and maybe some gentle spanking. Restraints come in all types and styles, we absolutely love silk rope as it’s really versatile and easy to use:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35068
If rope is a little too aggressive or extreme then get some nice cuffs as they are easy to remove if your feeling uncomfortable or just need to get out quickly, the bondage boutique set is on offer and it’s really soft and easy to use:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30725
The blindfold is really nice too and this is great for foreplay and teasing, if you have a bullet vibe or something similar then you can put the blindfold on and let your partner tease you into a shaking mess 🤪. Or you can put the cuffs and blindfold on and let your partner kiss you up and down and run his hands over your body, or vice versa. It’s great that you still have that spice in your life and best to make up for the possible lost time after the birth! Ha it takes a few weeks to get back to normal but I’m sure it will be absolutely fine. We got sex dice and the set above for one of our first weekends together and I basically tied her up with the blindfold on and rolled the dice and performed whatever action was given. That was fun and really heated up foreplay. Some major things with bondage is the following:
Safety word - find something you are happy to say if you feel uncomfortable and this should instantly stop play. Most people like a traffic light system so red will mean stop.
Communication is vital - communicating during is essential, check up on your partner subtly by asking little question “does this feel good” “do you like it like that” etc. Not enough to kill the mood but just to ensure it’s all okay.
A list of soft and hard limits - speak to your partner and agree with what your both happy with. Is anal play okay? How hard to be during spanking... etc. Just your limitations so neither of you have got to worry about any awkward situations
Finally, let go of your inibitions - have fun and experiment, some things that may seem scary of “extreme” may be one of the most intense experiences of your life so build up to what you like and enjoy yourselves. If anything at any point is uncomfortable or you don’t like it then make sure both partners are aware and add them to the list of limits.
Hopefully this helps and I wish you all the best on your journey ☺️ Also welcome again to the forums.
Unless they're for him of course. 😉Flamingo747 wrote:
Definitely start with gentle restraints, and bear in mind that you're much more prone to injury during pregnancy, so comfort is key :D Good luck
Hello + welcome to the forum
Some great suggestions above; I'd recommend a blindfold, simple yet effective and not threatening.
It would be great to hear how you get on :)
My wife was the same as you, your man is very lucky pregnant women look so cute
Hello and welcome! As previously said start with some simple
restraints, silk or satin or a nice place to start as they aren’t as
intimidating or as heavy as some of the more advanced ones. I personally
feel a blindfold is must! It really adds to the experience of giving up
control. The one we have is perfect for beginners, I’ve linked it below.
Have fun and enjoy! :) https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30717
Hi and welcome . Hope you are enjoying it on here.
Hello welcome, good place to start bondage wise is LH basic kits,
handcuffs etc... maybe move on to under bed restraints. As mentioned
above a blindfold is a must have then just slowly start trying out new
types. I like to use light bondage all the time so have a good
collection of blindfolds and restraints etc but I dont really fancy
making the moving to rope just yet.
Perfect thanks.all, ordered some.of the silk restraints and a blindfold
😀 can't wait for them to arrove tomorrow! Hubny is loving it atm 😂 so
refreshing to be able to chat away without being judged!
Hi, welcome to the forum :-)
Hello, welcome to the forum.