Hi, I am new to prostate massagers and wanted to know just how far in this toy will need to go for it to hit the spot? I tried getting past the middle portion but it started to hurt a little and didn’t want to go down to the base of the toy. I am unsure how far in it will need to go. Has anyone used this toy and if so, how far should it go in if past the middle or right before it? Thank you so much!
https://www.lovehoney.com/p/lovehoney-high-roller-remote-control-rotating-prostate-massager/76716.html here is the link for the toy if you don’t know
Hello and welcome @Jordan95 
I’m afraid prostate massagers aren’t my area of expertise, but I’ll chuck in the product image to make it easy for people to see the shape of the toy:
Hopefully someone more helpful will be along shortly.
It’ll need to go all the way in to line up with the prostate.
Take your time, use plenty of water based anal lubricant (Lovehoney Discover is good) and ease it in and out pushing just a little further in each time as your muscles relax.
Got it. I reach the bottom almost of the middle section and it’s like it doesn’t want to go further in without some pain. I might just need to get better lube and try again. If I have to go down to the bottom then I’ll have to try again! Thank you for the advice!
Before inserting things I find it helpful to put a generous dab of water based lube on my finger and finger myself for a few strokes. Then I start to relax and lube my prostate toy/butt plug whatever. Then like they said ease in slowly it’s not a race lol. Although once I relax back there the other toys/strapon come out but that’s another story for another topic. You’ll love it once you get it I know I do.
Hiya @Jordan95 Welcome to the forum 
Hopefully you’ll gets lots of advice. Sorry I can’t help
@Jordan95 It could be that you are inserting it at the wrong angle. Just before your prostate on the front wall of your rectum there is a sort of hollow, if you try to push the toy hard into that little pocket of skin, you will get pain. The toy will and cannot go deeper if it’s into that area.
Try again but this time try to angle the shaft of the toy towards your spine. It should go over your prostate then. If you have something like this https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/dildos/glass-dildos/p/lovehoney-beaded-sensual-glass-dildo-7-inch/a30946g52508.html then I would suggest that you use it to explore and find your prostate, then you will be familiar with the shape of your insides.
You will better be able to use the massager. As for how far inside you your prostate is, that varies from person to person, but only by a small amount, that’s why I suggest you explore with a firm slim dildo first.
