hiya :) new on this forum, got a few questions("bbw") (bdsm/bondage)

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i don't really know how to go about asking this, but if there's anyone on here who is a size 20+ could you reccomend some lingerie items to me that fit comfrtably and still look nice? i bought some underwear from Seven Til Midnight the other day and i love them but i just want to know about the sizing on other things from real people!

also, if anyone could help me with anything that they'd reccomend for a couple, my boyfriend is dominant but i'm far from submissive lol, i don't really know how to go about all of this at all at the mo, i have had an account for a while but only just started to use it properly. i like to assume i will feel more confident posting soon.

any help would be great, thank you.

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Welcome to the forums... There are plenty of ppl with that experience here.... Still working on that area myself.. The lh plus size section is full of lovely outfits and I guess all the bondage is one size fits all😉

Be naughty.....😉

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Welcome to the forums :)

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Oh I know the gear is one size, just want to know what people reccomend is all! I probably haven't worded myself correctly. Thankyou ![](upload://ez5kOkpKXRZOxjavAURYmQxVTau.gif)

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Hi xShellx and welcome to the forums. There's so much to choose from at LH, it can be hard to know where to begin - lol. A great starting point is the buyers guides - see links below

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/buyers-guide/

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex/buyers-guide/

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/lingerie/buyers-guide/

Here are a few ideas for the bondage department. You can always take it turns to be the Dom/Sub. This is quite a highly reviewed game, which could help you experiment with this:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29558

I would suggest this for an ideal first paddle – it is on offer at the moment in the ‘3 for £30 Bondage deal’, which also has the LH Tease Me crop and LH Tease Me wrist restraints in there too.

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/special-offers/3077/

You may also want to consider this for a starter flogger – its not at mean as it looks, and its more about how you use it – as with the paddle, build up slowly!

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19605

You could then maybe introduce a blindfold for some added spice, and later some cuffs. The Tracey Cox Beginners Bondage Kit is really nice and non-threatening and comes with one of the best blindfolds I have found.

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16308

Also check out Lovehoney’s ‘Bondage Guide for Beginners’ to get some other ideas:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/blog/2011/07/03/beginners-guide-to-bondage/

Play safe and have fun! xxx

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Hi welcome to the forums.

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Hello and welcome =D

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Hi and Welcome to the forums :)
I bought my mum this, she didn't think she could find something that would fit her and make her look sexy and she loves it!! http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27676 Xx

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Hello :)

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Hi and welcome :)

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Hi welcome and enjoy

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Hi welcome check out the LH Welcome page - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/inside-lovehoney/665597-welcome-to-the-lovehoney-forum/

Why not introduce yourself in the Newbie Initation Test http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/introduce-yourself/19119-newbies-initiation-test/

We are all a lovely bunch of coconuts have fun & enjoy LH x

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I'm a plus size lady and I think body stocking look good on the fuller figure.

I just bought this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=11313

I avoid the fishnet types, as I dont want to look like a whale caught in fishing net! Lace is much more flattering!

And as Scorpius has also suggested, check this link out http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/blog/2011/07/03/beginners-guide-to-bondage/

have fun ![](upload://h7LJ67OOrR57VDYrj5ZEwwHAfLG.gif)