Would you let your partner make a homemade porn film of you. Considering it, what are your thoughts?
We've recently started doing this and it is the hottest thing ever to watch back, either together or alone. We're doing the long distance thing atm so it's really helpful in that respect.
I say go for it! If you don't feel comfortable with the results you can easily delete it (and you partner should respect that).
This is something i do actually want to try, but i'd be insistent on being the one who kept the tape, purely because males are much more likely to use something like that against an ex putting it online, or show it off to their friends. As it seems generally with sex related things it reflects worse on a female reputation wise, so if i wasnt allowed to keep the tape, i don't think i'd do it.
No chance not in a million years.
Yes we've made some only for us. Started by asking OH to let me film her masturbating and using vibe on herself. Very horny. Built up to hand jobs and bjs. Very erotic watching it back together love the slow mow's.. especially come on her.
Just considering making a blow job one with my husband but only because I trust him implicitly. It's not something I would recommend if you were the least bit unsure about the relationship.
We've made a few over the last year or so. We bought a good camera before going on holiday and couldn't resist using it in the bedroom. I get final say on everything and if I really don't like it it gets deleted straight away. We don't upload anywhere, we just keep them on the computer at home. I trust my OH completely though and know that he keeps them to himself. I'm his so he would never consider showing anyone - no sharing.
My ex however was a different story. I never let him take a picture let alone film anything. He was definitely the type of guy that would have shown it to all of his mates the first chance he got. Also, I shudder at the idea of him using using pictures of me for wank fodder. I always knew we wouldn't last and that it wouldn't end well when it did. I was right.
A friend told me once that her friend let her OH take pics and film and when they broke up he sent them to all the guys he knew to humiliate her.
So yeah trust is the main factor to consider. If you do trust them then I say go for it because it is so much fun!
We've got loads of videos and pictures, but I would never ever put them online. There's enough of that stuff all over the Internet, and what happens in our sex life is totally private and it's kind of more special and intimate that way.
Homemade porn is just blackmail material in waiting.
If you let a partner make a porno with you in it, you'd better be prepared never to split from them!
So the answer for me is no, I would never.
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Okay, I feel I should just specify that I absolutely completely trust my partner of 5 years and fiance of 2 and a half. Currently only I have copies of our material anyway.
I'd like to think (well, I know), even if we did ever break up, that we both have the respect and decency never to share these things with anyone else.
Spoonerism wrote:
Okay, I feel I should just specify that I absolutely completely trust my partner of 5 years and fiance of 2 and a half. Currently only I have copies of our material anyway.
I'd like to think (well, I know), even if we did ever break up, that we both have the respect and decency never to share these things with anyone else.
It's amazing how someone you completely trust can turn on you if the mood so takes them.
If you enjoy it then go for it, but rather you than me!
We have done a few photos but no video as yet but we are planning to once we get our bed room re aranged and abit tidyer looking (the joys of moving house).
We trust each other so it wouldnt be a problem for us having video around it would just be another kinky thing on our laptop.
i have made a few homemade videos and they are in my hands and are for myself only! its a massive turn on!! i would only ever do it if i were in control of everything, never trust anyone else with stuff like that unless you really feel they would never betray you!
I love the idea of my partner watching videos of us, especially things like close up blow jobs, but I think I need to get my self-esteem up before I watch us. I think it's easy to be critical after sex as some positions aren't the most flattering shall we say. Any advice how to get over seeing what you look like and enjoy watching the sex??
not a chance!
Yeh would love to do this, find it a huge turn-on.
Yes I would and yes we have, only live once!! Give it a go ;) xx
I couldn't, it's not me. I'm quite self conscious & if we ever did, I don't think I could watch it. A glance sometimes in the mirror is enough for me. ^_^
we used to do it all the time and loved it. Now we never do it but not to say we wouldnt and enjoy it
I've let my partner record me on a few occasions, however I tend to do solo pictures and videos for him more often. I am a little more comfortable being in control of the camera haha. I think either is fun, and he seems to enjoy having them. Every few weeks he's asking to make another haha.