Hi all, I'm following up from my recent post in the lingerie forum.
I talked to my bf when he came back from work today about roleplaying. He's a shy guy and likes to be dominated. He's open for me to give him some homework a few days in advance and to let me reward or punish him depending on the grade he gets from me. However, he asked me what the homework will be on - being new into s&m, I didn't really have an answer.
So, do you guys have suggestions? He's too smart for maths questions though  I'm not too sure if he's 'capable' of writing a dirty essay.
Ooo that sounds like a lot of fun. I hope you both enjoy the roleplay :) I think I would ask for an essay describing a sexual experience you have had together. Or questions about your relationship, keeping it light hearted so if he gets it wrong you wouldn't be offended. Perhaps what scent massage oil you use? Or what time of day you are usually in the mood? What's your favourite position? Things like that. If it was me I would prefer to keep the homework of a sexual nature x
In would go along with what the others have suggested multiple choice questions. You could always get the info from the web.
Another option if you have any decent sex manuals is to photocopy a page say on a ladies sex flower.The blank out the labels .Rephotocopy it again so you have an unlabelled copy.The get him to label it. Then see how good he is on his knowledge of the female sex organ .
For The role play itself make sure he addresses you properly as for example Miss Cropper or just Miss. For yourself call him by his surname only , that will make him nervous.
I just hope your guy is a confident bloke otherwise he is going to be a quivering jelly !
Vague opinion type multiple choice questions are a good idea since the you get to be in complete control of the mark he is given. There may be a spot of prep for you, but once in the scene it's easy and quick.
I'd recommend that the first time you do this you make the homework non kink related so it's a non scary and simple introduction so you can easily debrief afterwards.
Going on to more advanced scenarios, you could tell him to research a given subject ready for a test, and then make the test absolutely nothing to do with his research. The key really is to keep it simple and maintain your ability to choose how well he scores for his grade.
If you Google something like School Spanking stories on your browser it should throw up some short story sites .Have a read of a few ,as they may help you setting your scene.
I did a detailed role play on the very subject your doing but sadly it was pulled by LH before Leannes time as it was deemed too much like erotic fiction. That is the problem when devising role plays as soon as you add the dialogue , the very area many find difficult it does turn into something similar to erotic fiction.
So anything else you need just ask
Just remember to play safely , make sure that safe words are known and all the activities are within your boundaries. Dont take it seriously , have a laugh and have fun.
Thanks all. I already have him address me as Miss. Everytime he forgets or doesn't answer loudly, he gets caned. I like August_A&R's suggestion - that way, I get to control him the way I like  Maybe he'll have to kneel for a time that I won't let him know before I do a handjob.
I came across some videos on Youtube about slapping his balls. Is it safe in real life? Or are the videos just like unrealistic porn?
Until you feel more comfortable in your role I would suggest holding off on the ball slapping lol. You might like to start off with a flick from an elastic band. Painfull but less likely to damage your property.
Thanks all. I already have him address me as Miss. Everytime he forgets or doesn't answer loudly, he gets caned. I like August_A&R's suggestion - that way, I get to control him the way I like  Maybe he'll have to kneel for a time that I won't let him know before I do a handjob.
I came across some videos on Youtube about slapping his balls. Is it safe in real life? Or are the videos just like unrealistic porn?
At most just tap gently with your chosen implement and also perhaps his manhood as well.I found it quite a turn on when my Mrs did it to me in a cop role play.
This evening, I surprised him with on the spot essay writing about our first date. It was cool - me barking orders on a guy much taller instantly upon coming back home. Fortunately, my heels gave some confidence.
After finishing our scene, he made a point about his 'uniform'. So, is there a place selling school boy uniform for a grown up? Something a bit tight will actually be good 
For our role play ,sadly unacted as my Mrs bottled it ,I would have worn dark trousers ,white shirt ,tie and a blazer. The latter item ,I have plenty of as I am blazer wearing guy.
She would have worn the Secretary out fit with,stockings heels, school masters gown and head piece (motorboard) and riding crop and FSOG ruler.
For "homework" I'd be suggesting things like "wear a buttplug whilst writing an essay on x/doing x" or "write an essay on your favorite fetish and speak it to the class", draw a new sex toy and describe how it works. Stuff like that
The best thing about roleplays is uniform, and for this kind of play particularly! You know that really sexy looks from math teacher, with jackets and ties, the ones that you want to pull so badly? That's my favourite part.
And thanks for ideas everybody! Seems like someone is going to have a very lovely sex life update :)
The best thing about roleplays is uniform, and for this kind of play particularly! You know that really sexy looks from math teacher, with jackets and ties, the ones that you want to pull so badly? That's my favourite part.
And thanks for ideas everybody! Seems like someone is going to have a very lovely sex life update :)
No problem and if you need any more help or info just ask on this thread .
This evening, I surprised him with on the spot essay writing about our first date. It was cool - me barking orders on a guy much taller instantly upon coming back home. Fortunately, my heels gave some confidence.
After finishing our scene, he made a point about his 'uniform'. So, is there a place selling school boy uniform for a grown up? Something a bit tight will actually be good 
Sounds like a good night, how did he react to it?
With the uniform, either Google Adult School Uniform but it can be pricey. eBay is another good bet, but you could cheaply coble something together as its quite basic. Even take a pair of scisors to dress pants to make shorts.
For "homework" you could split it off into studies and then pick his weakest one, some ideas off the top of my head
- English - Write a short story about a sexual fantasy that turns you on.
- Science - What is the best way to please a woman sexually
- Art - Body paint?
- Drama - Perform a convincing fake orgasm
- Languages - Say something dirty in X many languages
- PE - Show a workout to improve sexual stamina
- History - Write about a previous sexual encounter and how you would improve
Think that is all the subjects 