Generally speaking, I think there is no link to wearing an Anklet and swinging … I think it is one of those ongoing, long believed myths. For the vast majority, this is nothing more than a fashion accessory, that some love, and some hate …. however there is a connotation to this which is possibly where the misunderstanding comes from.
There are certain charms etc that can sometimes be worn on an am anklet that have a linkage to swinging. Some of these are:
HW … as in hotwife, a wife (and hubby) that likes the lady to swing as part of a couple.
Fox … Indicates a Vixen, as in a very foxy lady!
Cockerel … as in cock, a lady that likes cock.
Handcuffs … a lady that likes a bit of BDSM.
There are others, but hope this give an indication.
I don’t think there is a hard and fast rule and I would generally presume it’s just a fashion piece but I know a few bulls will keep an eye open for one and generally inquire as to if it has any significance.
I think the sentement of the wife wearing even with a plain anklet would be quite fun
A Hotwife is typically a wife whose husband enjoys being cuckolded, and that’s definitely the implication you’ll be giving off to the kink initiated at least.
They are always hot. And ready to be intimate with another man. In my experience more hotwives are hotwives because they are submissive to their partner who will more or less beg to be cuckolded.
I stopped seeing one of the hottest women I’ve ever seen because the husband of the Hotwife was recording us through a one way mirror and the third night, asked me to go behind the mirror and watch him eat my…essence out of her.
I knew what a Hotwife was. And what their arrangement was. But watching that was just a little past the line for me.
Even though she told me that she wasn’t allowed to take a shower until she got home and her husband did what he did.
They were both attractive high society fit parents. She was totally submissive to him.
Which, yay for them. I just didn’t want to feel like I was forcing a woman to do something they were only doing because they were being submissive to their husband.
Felt wrong to me, regardless of how much she enjoyed it.
So. You decide. Is that the right anklet for you now that you know what all of the kink world will think when they see it in you?
I do occasionally wear an anklet without any charms on it but I am far from a hot wife. I wear them because I like them especially on holiday just like a bracelet.
When we visit clubs some women do wear HW charms on them to signify that they are a hot wife which is totally different to what I wear.
My wife already has two in silver that she wears regularly through the summer when she can show off her legs although I’m still not sure she’s aware of the sexual connotations, all the hornier if she does but following this thread has tempted me to order her another one in gold with a small key trinket and her name on it.
The key also has a sexual connotation which will be familiar to those on the forum who are caged and enjoy a FLR.
Valentine’s Day is only weeks away so I’m planning on keeping it for her until then.
Regardless of whether she knows it’s sexual meaning, I know she’ll wear it when the weather improves and maybe then we’ll have the conversation.
She’s pretty open minded so even if the meaning comes as a surprise I know she likes the way they look and will still wear it.
I have to admit to wearing an anklet with a key attached. A date night away with hubby. I’ve only done it once. I did have a few guys come up to me throughout the course of the evening. I have to admit I loved the attention I received, maybe it’s time to dust off the anklet and wear it proudly again for valentines. Obviously hubby will be caged lol xx
Sorry , old guy here and I think they are hotter than heck . Slight silver or gold on a nicely tanned ankle can arouse me right away . Same goes for a waist chain if appropiate . Skinny chain is a must .