I recently told my OH about my hotwife fantasy. We've enjoyed talking about it in bed. It's still in the early stages of discussion and I was wondering if any one had any ideas on how to find suitable partners. Any advice would be appreciated.
So, are you looking for a Bull then? Are you looking to be there to watch or just stay at home and get the report from your OH later? Head to Twitter...literally awash with hot wife accounts and, er, male enthusiasts. Seems there are a few ways of going about it, at least by looking at how regular hotwives find new partners you can get a better idea of what will work well for you and your OH.
Yes looking for a bull. Just waiting at home for the report at first but eventually watching and hopefully joining in at some point. Just one off things but still looking in to how to go about it.
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Yes looking for a bull. Just waiting at home for the report at first but eventually watching and hopefully joining in at some point. Just one off things but still looking in to how to go about it.
If you are brave enough you could put a post on twitter with a picture/ description of your wife and #hotwife, where you are, what you are looking for in a bull (looks, distance away, cock size, price, etc). You will get takers, but I guess as with all things you will have to wade through a certain amount of undesirables before you find the bull you want. Might be worth dropping a message to an established hot wife to ask for their advice regarding different websites that might also help find serious guys.
It's important to talk first before jumping in with a partner and finding a bull. Try roleplaying scenarios first, e.g. how she found someone at work, while you where out etc. Her sending you messages during the day. Then possibly step it up, for example go to a non local club or pub and watch her flirt and pick up guys with you from after. Yourll find out how you could react or feel as often fantasy and the reality don't mix and once you do it there is no going back. There are website and places to try but most success we have found is people we already know from clubs and like minded groups. But the biggest thing is communication and take your time.
I think if we did do it we would want to be discreet as possible. Thanks for all the suggestions. I guess there is still a lot of discussion and research to do.
Have a look at Fabswingers
Thanks, I guess there's lots out there. Just have to find what works
Thanks for all the advice. It looks like there are a few ways to go about it and a lot to look in to. We might be going to Amsterdam for a short trip soon and we've talked about what we could get up to away from it all in another city.Gosig wrote:
DH36 wrote:
Yes looking for a bull. Just waiting at home for the report at first but eventually watching and hopefully joining in at some point. Just one off things but still looking in to how to go about it.
If you are brave enough you could put a post on twitter with a picture/ description of your wife and #hotwife, where you are, what you are looking for in a bull (looks, distance away, cock size, price, etc). You will get takers, but I guess as with all things you will have to wade through a certain amount of undesirables before you find the bull you want. Might be worth dropping a message to an established hot wife to ask for their advice regarding different websites that might also help find serious guys.
Fabswingers is a great place to find what you need. We have met some fantastic people on there and some have become good friends. We started in swing clubs but much prefer fabswingers. Started with meeting while hubby was present , have since had several meets in hotels alone and a few times at home to surprise him whilst he was at work with some sexy pics of the fun.
Thanks, I've heard people mention fab swingers and say good things about it. We are still at the talking about it in the bedroom stage, finding out what we want and playing with the idea. Definately a huge turn on though. All help and info greatly appreciated.
I've been tempted to try Fab too - would love to get involved in a mfm or a hotwife/cuck scenario. Any tips on how a single guy could get involved?
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