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Yeah rightā
This my biggest fantasy too. 
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My wife knows this is a fantasy of mine as Iāve told her and I know it turns her on. Any time sheās using one of her dildos and Iām just watching or she is also sucking my cock with a dildo, weāre discussing it. We watch MFM porn and she likes it, even the random FFM porn she likes, but sheās never as vocal about it and rarely shares her fantasies with me? With all of that said, I honestly donāt think I could ever do it for real and believe keeping this as fantasy play is most likely best for me/us.
This fantasy for me evolved I guess from my fetish of her wearing very low cut blouses and showing lots of cleavage for others to see. She knows it turns me on and also admits that it turns her on knowing others are checking her out.
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I have been enjoying this fantasy for a while, not being especially well endowed Iāve offered that if she wanted to try something bigger we could invite a bigger cock into our play. Iām very bi-curious and also into cuck fantasies so being made to wear lingerie while fluffing the bull for the wife to enjoy is soooo hot for me.
Sadly she doesnāt want to go thereā¦
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@JoCat ā¦sorry if im being a bit thick, but can you explain the difference between MMF and MFMā¦Its still two men and one woman?
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Perhaps MMF is PIV and Anal wheras MFM is PIV (or anal] and oral 
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@Iwill in these acronyms the letters in contact indicate the persons engaging in contact. So MMF includes male on male and male on female contact. MFM indicates two males, but the males donāt play together except as incidental contact when both are engaged with female.
(Yes, itās all based on very binary understanding).
As to FMM vs MMF, I think whichever is first indicates the lead/dominant role?
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I maybe wrong but MFM and MMF do have a difference, one is 2 straight guys on a woman and the other is 2 bi guys and a woman. Couldnāt tell you which is which
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My understanding as well.
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@LRLRL ā¦oh jeez its a whole science in its,self !!
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Hahaā¦ yes - Iām sure itās prevalent in porn, but itās especially prominent in the descriptions of smut/erotica/romance books where youāre reading these descriptions that look like trying to read the human genome: MMMMMFMMMFF DARK BDSM REVERSE HAREM BILLIONAIRE ROMANCE"
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@Iwill all of the above
Haha you donāt want to be going expecting some MMF action only to find out the other M is expecting MFM Bc people donāt alwags know, its important to discuss expectations to make sure everyone is on the same page.
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@JoCat ā¦ if i ever find myself in the potential situation, ill run it bye the forum members for guidance!! 
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Iām blown away with all this variation of initials for the sake of it. Surely just use MMF as itās easier to say.
In the zone surely everyone would swap round with each other anyway, or would that require a committee meeting to renegotiate the rules ?
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Its not for the sake of it though, its an indication of intentions. It tells you if same sex is going to engage with same sex, you canāt just assume.
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Right, Iām getting it a bit more now, sorry to appear thick lol. The order of the letters indicates the preference of the dynamic. I got this really wrong !
Me and my o/h have taught about us playing with an extra guy (as fantasy really) and we have used the term MMF as its two men and one female in a hetero style. I didnāt realise I was incorrect and would MFM be more correct ?
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If you and the man would be having sex or oral or whatever, then it would be MMF/FMM. If you and the man are not having sex or oral or whatever, itās MFM and that just basically means the woman is between you.
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So first Iād recommend a paid site or app. We went the unpaid route and found out pretty quickly a lot of people are not legit. Going for something g close but not too close to where you live is a great idea.
I was put onto Interracial Cupid by a friend in the early 2000ās way before there was even an app. Had a lot of success with it and we still use it today. Mostly black men as far as the other sex goes so if thatās not your thing they have OK Cupid as well. Never used it but I imagine itās the same user friendly idea, just not focused on interracial connections.
Main thing Iād say is just take it slow and be hinest. Not only with your other half but with those you connect with.
Iām assuming youāre uncertain of what her reaction will be, and are worried she might be angry, or hurt?
Having recently brought a third into our sex life my honest take on your question in the above context is that if you have to strategize to ask the question, your relationship is not at the right place.
Introducing a third person requires the existing relationship to be 100% solid, and lines of communication 100% open. If you canāt just say āwhat do you think about having a threesome?ā over your Weetabix, Iād start with talking and exploring fantasies within your existing relationship.
Getting completely comfortable talking about sex, and your emotions is in my mind a prerequisite for introducing another person into your sex life.
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