I recently got a butt plug. Fairly small, cone shape, and vibrating. I got it because I love my GF using her finger but because of the position she likes for giving me head only one hand is available. This works for her finger in my butt except when I’m close her mouth on the head of my pecker becomes too much so I like just her hand to finish off.
However, from some other threads I’m learning maybe I shouldn’t be so bashful about using my own hand leaving hers free for my butt.
Back to the plug: I’m extremely sensitive around the rim of my butt but other than the thrill of pushing it in, not much after that. For some reason my GF’’s finger is more enjoyable. Also before she goes in, her playing around the rim is wonderful. I get very excited even when she lubes me up.
So, would a bigger plug give more pleasure, and why?
Incidentally one reason for the plug is when she forgets to trim her fingernail and it is a mood breaker to stop and do it. TIA
Mmmmm butt plugs …I don’t usually hang about rimming and do any more external stuff than I need to. The jewelled plugs (small, medium,large) scare me because I nearly lost one, even my large one has a ribbon on it in case it tries to go to infinity and beyond. I have the LH vibrating anal beads which gives a nice tingly feeling. However my personal favourite is the vibrating inflatable one LH sells. That way you can have it any size you want within reason (don’t want it going bang up there) it’s the fullness feeling for me that I enjoy and the vibration sensations are a bonus. I have more confidence with bigger ones, but I don’t have an OH to rescue a wee one if it does a disappearing trick . You could get a larger one in the 3 for 2 deal or when they’re on sale and treat your butt and see what you prefer 
I really enjoy the stretching feeling(can become addictive) so a larger cone might be a choice a larger butt plug could also be an option the feeling as you close round the neck is lovely.
From your description you’d love being rimmed its a fantastic feeling having your partners tongue on your pucker have her kneel on the floor you lying on your back on the bed legs behind your head both her hands are free to use on you however she wants
Same here. The feeling of being stretched wide is addictive and I love the full feeling you get with a big plug. My biggest is 9.5" girth.
Using it regularly also keeps me open and ready for when she decides to peg me.
I also love using a wand on the end of the plug when it’s inside me.
Maybe you need to explore a bit more into bum fun to discover what else pleasures you, but alternatively if you find your GF is doing a great job then why not just stick with it 
Rockstar do you really mean 9.5” girth or was that a typo. And by girth do mean diameter or circumference? And did you mean inches as opposed to say mm?
Yeah AJSTAR I’ll likely just stay with my GF’s finger. There’s something very exciting about a live finger compared to a toy.
I started this thread because my plug is pretty small and cone shaped. It does vibrate but this seems to really only feel good around the rim. What I’m wondering is if I’m missing something because neither my current plug or GF’s finger go in very far. Or very big around for that matter. Maybe I’ll try her dildo before spending on a bigger plug.
The other thing is i get very excited first when she puts lube in and then plays all round the rim. I’m usually a goner as soon as she puts her finger in. Of course all this while she’s giving me wonderful head.
But, still interested in the discussion.
Something I should have mentioned at the start is the prostate. I don’t know if I’m missing out here. My GF’s finger is at least as long as my urologist’s, a short female with small hands who reaches my prostate easily during my check ups.
I’m sure my GF has no idea where to move her finger around and my plug is cone shaped so I’m not going to find it with that. She doesn’t read about this kind of thing so maybe I should find out in order to tell her.
Her not having a lip lock on me and me not having one finger in her pussy and another on the same hand in her butt would probably allow a longer time for to search around. Life’s tough.
So, any thoughts on this?
Circumference.
I struggle to get past 4.5cm in but nothing beats a few fingers
Yeah I know exactly what you mean and think there’s something about real body contact that a toy can’t simulate.
It’s a good idea to give a dildo a try to see how that feels
That’s a nice collection.
As I move up in size I tend to throw away my smaller plugs.
I tend to error on the side of larger. More value for the money, and you can always work your way larger; very difficult to work the other way 
you are right to start of small, as you get used to the insertion you can get a bigger one, unless you enjoy pain then there is little sense in hurting yourself to early, just take it easy and remember always plenty of lube, by the way you can always get one that you can inflate inside your butt, if you enjoy butt play then spend a few bob and get some vibrating bum toys and have some real fun xx
Would an inflatable but plug help to get a larger plug in ?
I have an inflatable one that vibrates but struggle getting a bigger one in but can get an ever bigger one in. Think it depends what they’re made of, how rigid/flexible they are, how they cope with lube, and the shape.
I have one with 2 wing like things I have to squeeze closed to get in then it opens up when inside. I’ve tried a few times and haven’t managed it in yet.
I also have a larger one with 4 wing like things and a hole in the middle. I have to squeeze it closed too and have had that one in a few times.
Trial and error and a whole lot of fun
Ive just ordered a “wire cage type” hollow butt plug looks like a butt plug but is made from wire so almost totally open(think ballon whisk in design say)
There is something about the sight of it that is fantastic. Some of the R@cy Angel vids out there are some extreme stretching and the look of the anus when the dildo is removed and how it holds shape? Amazing!
I think it must take real time and work to get it to accept such a large penetration.
I do love the look and the massive expanse that follows. Super hot
I do enjoy the stretch (going in and out) and I enjoy the feeling of fullness with such a big plug soo I often leave it in for a couple of hours.
There is also a secondary purpose though. I need to keep myself ready in case my wife decides to peg me. Our larger dildo is 10" long x 7" girth (circumference) and if she uses that I need to be pre-prepared so I use the plug at least every 2 days to keep my muscles relaxed. If I leave it more than a few days I cannot take the big dildo comfortably.