My wife and I both LOVE our toys! We have a nightstand filled with toys for each of us. From anal/prostate toys to monster shaped dildos and everything in between.
We like to both pick out a toy we want to use on the other and one we would like used on us and it always seems to keep things fresh.
We find it a great way to know what the other is in the mood for without any of the guesswork.
Of course we don’t always use toys but they play a large part in out sex life.
A big part. Hubby has ed and needs a lot of stimulation to get hard enough so i use a special male wand thing and my mouth on him. Also have toys for me as well.
I love that you make it work for you. I think everyone deserves a significant other like that. Does he enjoy prostate massage? I’ve read some studies that prostate massage can help with ED aswell as be extremely pleasurable.
We were going to start doing that but he changed his mind and said it didnt feel right putting things up there. He does know that it is supposed to help but if he doesnt want to do it then that is his choice. We make it work so its all good.
For me, it’s pretty equal for with vs without toys - though many sessions, we don’t use any toys at all.
Keeping it natural is great for a relationship or marriage in my opinion and stops your body becoming acclimatised. You hear so many stories about toys and constant use
I agree with that. Using toys too often can desensitize you which can take away from natural stimulation. Similarly, porn and masturbation can do the same thing. I would say moderation is always something to consider.
Not a massive part to be honest - we do use them occasionally but I’ve seen a few times when I’ve hidden a dildo under the pillow to use on my OH and we’ve never got around to using it as things were going so well!!! Do have some remote control toys to use but based on this, it could be a while!!!
I totally get it. There was a time that was the case with us aswell. We have been together nearly 20 years now and we are very comfortable telling each other what we want, and how we want it and when. Sometimes the toys are just a nice addition to whats already happening.
I would have to say we use toys almost every time we are performing some sort of sexual play. Most times to the point of climax we are using the toys on either her or me. But we do also balance and perform PIV as well with no toys. But the toys can add a feeling of fantasy that keeps it fun and a little more variety between just us two.
Toys are a big part of our sex lives. We use them almost every time we have sex. We have a variety of toys. We have a vast collection of dildos, vibrators, anal toys and masturbators.
We both love toys and use them all the time. They are all ‘female’ toys, but my OH loves to watch me suck the realistic dildo while she’s holding a vibrator against my cock….result!
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