Can’t believe I’m saying this but I’m bored watching porn… Wait… What did I just say!! Watching porn is in my top 5 turn ons (yes I have a top 5 turn on list) Now I absolutely love watching porn and not the regular boring bang the shit out of her kind but the something that has a Senario and half decent acting and relates to my tights fetish/ lycra / big ass genre…
Now before you say it…no I’m not addicted to porn and don’t watch it every day.
Recently it’s not doing anything for me and find it boring… Now I know I’m specific in the genre I watch and have tried loads of other genres and still no interest like before…
Can anyone else relate and does anyone know if this is a phase etc???
It doesnt do a whole lot for me either. Like you, i like a plot line. Im not bothered about the money shot at the end either. I tend to watch it occasionally if i know we have a big scene coming up just to ignite the imagination and help me get into the right headspace. (Im a sub in our kink scenarios) Saying that music can hit me much deeper. I have a playlist i use while i get ready which melts me into the submissive he expects to find when he walks into the room
Yup I can relate to this as a few times more recently I’ve found it really unsatisfying until I find another kink what sparks my interest but in general I sit watch and get nothing stimulating from it… I did recently discover I kinda liked vintage stuff but it’s all gone rather hit and miss on the right ones that arouse me
You don’t have to be addicted to porn for it to have a desensitizing effect over time. Even quite modest use can result in lowered levels of arousal for some people.
If it’s just porn that you’re finding boring then perhaps take a porn break for a few months. If you don’t then sooner or later the lowered level of arousal can find it’s way into your bedroom and cause porn induced erectile dysfunction (it’s an actual thing, look it up).
Your body is giving you a warning, heed it. Lay off the porn for a few months.
