i have a girlfriend and we have a 3some night at least once a fortnight, we also have one of his mates that reguarly joins the two of us and we swing with 2 couples once a month
we both have toys and use them on one another and our mates, i love taking him and one of our friends husbands up the @ss with my strap on and my friend has mentioned that her husband is up for trying the real thing
the thought absolutley turns me on its the only boundry we havent pushed, the thought of my OH having a real cock inside him makes me want to explode but i just dont know how to approach it, normally either things just happen or he'll hint at it like he did with the strap on but he has never mentioned doing it for real
if they do it i want t owatch so my mate has said she is happy to join in either by giving my OH a BJ or by letting him f*ck her either straight or anally at the same time
The guys have sucked one another off for us before so hes not completly anti cock
do you think i should ask him or should we just see if things naturally develop, , it would literally make all my christmases if this happened
I think it's not something you can persuade him to do. Either he'll be into it or he wont and I don't think you could or should talk him into doing something he's not into. It sounds like you have a really open and adventurous relationship so I'd just be honest and ask he how he feels about it. Just tell him that the other guy has expressed an interest and what are his thoughts. Worst that can happen is he says no and then you haven't lost anything and everyone is clear where the boundaries are.
I think KP has this one covered....it's not fair to "persuade" anyone, if they aren't into an idea then no means no....and the best thing to do is be up front and discuss it rather than wait until the situation comes up, that way he won't feel pressured.
I agree with KP. I would pick a good time to tell him that the other guy has expressed a wish to do it and say you would like to watch, but dont put any pressure on him or anything like that. He'll either want to do it or he wont, and there wont be much you can do to change that.
It sounds like you're both amazingly open with your sex lives with each other, so it sounds like you should be able to express something like this, even if nothing comes of it.
im so excited, OH went on the computer after me last night and saw my post and is well up for it & tomorrow night is the night :o)
he said he had been thinking abuot it too, normally things just happen with us but he said he didnt know how to bring this up either as normally things happen naturally with us - i told him about having dabbled with girls more or less as soon as we met & he said he was happy for that to continue as long as he could join in occasionally & the threesome with his mate came up in a jokey drunken conversation a few months into our relationship (id had 3somes before both 2girls 1guy and one guy and 2 girls and he had done the same) his mate was newly single and wanted a sh*g but werent up for going on the pull so i joking said come back with us & so he did and we have happily continued ever since & the swinging started with a couple we met on holiday, the girl caught my eye around the pool, next night we saw them in a bar in town and they said they had seem us at the beach and thought they had spotted us shagging in the sea and were gutted because theyd tried and she had paniced - again the drinks were flowing and eventually they said that they thought id been checking her out the day before at the pool, i said i was and she said she had always thought about being with a woman but again never ahd the guts, while we had gone to get drinks the boys were talking and her OH said maybe we should let them go back for the night and we go into town, that never happened but we did all go back together and had our first foursome, the two blokes didnt do anything together but me and the lady did and we both had sex with both the OHs
we still see them reguarly as they live fairly close and the other couple we swing with is the guy we have the threesome with his girlf is a nurse and is aware we sometimes get together as a 3some when she is working
we have had a few sessions with the 6 of us, although that has ony happened about 4 times
i would never have tried to persuade my OH to do something he didnt want to, i had a feeling he would be up for it as normally anything goes but it normally kind of happens in teh heat of the moment like the cock sucking thing started with me using a strap on our mate while his girlfriend was giving him a blow job, OH was watching and having a w*nk and kissing me and his mates girlf. i jokingly said why dont you help with the BJ, and we all just looked at each other smiled and he got down and started helping his mates girlf
so then later we pushed it further and said we wanted to see them do it solo and swallow and so they happily did
I think we are always so turned on anything goes but for me this was the two guys actually f*cking one another was a turn on but i was worried he may think it was one step to far as neither of them had ever hinted at it and OH said he was worried i might think it was a gay step to far, whereas i just think its some fun, like i think only a girl truly knows how to touch and lick a girls body, the guys have said that the BJs they give one another are deeper although the girls are better with their tongues so he loves it with strapon i think he will love the real thing even more
i will let you know how we get on, i am so excited