How did discovering Clitoral Suction Toys impact you/your partner?

My first suction toy was from FSOG & it was free with something else. I didn’t like the suction toy, it did nothing for me. My preference at that time was power and this wasn’t giving that. For some reason I didn’t throw it out, it just lived in my bedside drawer.

I had a 2yr relationship and I didn’t use toys at all, when that ended I got the toys back out. The wand that I used to love bc it was as powerful as a jackhammer, was way too powerful and it felt like it was trying to buzz away my clit! During a rummage I came across the suction toy and decided to try it. Couldn’t find the power cable but miraculously, there was still some juice in it. You know that image of a body being lifted and their soul being dragged out…thats how it felt, I used that toy until it died. I then bought a wee cheap one from a large online store & then another bc I was afraid it would die & I’d be without it.

The first one I bought from LH was the Starlet 2. Loved it. I also tried using the wand again and really didn’t like it. Thats when I realised the difference between buzz and rumbly vibes and that I really loved the rumbles and did not like the buzz. I don’t know that I ever loved the buzz, but it got me to orgasm in less than 30 secs and I think thats what I expected from masturbating. I had never considered that a slower buildup would give me so much more pleasure.

I’ve had various clitoral suction toys since then and each one was my fav until I got the next. But, my 2 standouts that haven’t been beaten are the Womanizer Next and the We-Vibe Melt, I think its the Melt 2 that I have. The Next is such a treat for when I want to take my time, and the Melt is great for using with a partner during PIV if I want a bit more power than fingers. Its also great if I want an orgasm right now, with urgency.

I prefer to use a suction toy solo, but will add the Melt every so often bc its slim so fits easily between us and its also easy for him to use on me. We’ve used it on his frenulum as well and he enjoys the pucker, combined with a bit of tongue. If I’m sending him a video treat, I won’t generally use the suction toy, bc theres not really much action to see, but he loves knowing that I’ve used it & i’ll tell him about it so that he is involved.

I would absolutely recommend a clitoral suction toy and a good starter one would be the Mon Ami Pleasure Air toy I love the rumbles on this, its low power and the price is good. The rose is very popular, but due to the width, and the flat top, I find it harder to get positioned. I have one and once in the right place, its great. But theres less faff (for me) with other toys.

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