Well, Where to start?
I was working with the Princes Trust, as a trainy Outdoor pursuits instructor.
J was at college and sent to the PT for team building.
We started getting along really well, Although at the time I had given up on women and also had a court case hovering over my head...
One afternoon everybody was outside having a break and I walked up and asked " Would it be ok if I sat with you? "
So I did and we got along. She tried setting me up with her mate and my mate had tried to bet me that he would bed J within a week.
Anyway. A few nights later we were texting, And sussed that we had a thing for eachother.... I really lamely asked her if she wanted to go into the PT as a couple in the morning. Se said yes.
The only thing was that morning was my court case and I very nearly got a 9 year sentence ( long story )
I got let off and we started to flirt very heavely, Our first kiss was amazing.
Anyway, We had an expedition to go on, It was October. So the first thing planned was a gorge walk.
We did this and I noticed J looking more and more ill as te day went on. The walk ended at a big pool that everyone was jumping into and swimming to shore.
Her friend kept egging her on but J looked like she was petrified. I tried stopping her but she was too quick for me!
At that moment i didnt know that she couldnt swim or that she was pregnant! I know!!!! BIG SHOCK!
I ended up having to save her, And within half an hour she went into shock and started getting re3ally bad tummy pains.
Her friend kept telling her to keep quiet and my work collegues told me to let her be and go on her own.
( she had only just moved to plymouth, knew know one and her parents were away on hols )
So I went with her anyway ( thats the person i am! )
Found out she was preggies and instead of running a mile, \i stuck by her.
She came back to my flat and i looked after her................
*Continued in half an hour, Getting a lift, D|AMN TIMING! GRRRRRR.........*