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@Kitty-Cat01 I donāt think so no. While I havenāt personally deepthroated OH, I have many years of viewing adult videos under my belt. Even the best performers hit that āOh crap, I canāt breathe!ā panic and push against the guys thighs anywhere between 10-25 seconds (25 seconds is a LONG time btw).
@Cupc8kes If a BJ is feeling especially good, and the guy instinctively reaches for the back of your head to push you down farther, donāt count him out as simply being a jerk. Itās a very natural and powerful instinct for a guy to want to bury himself balls deep in whatever hole heās currently penetrating. Thatās one of the reasons (though certainly not all) why deepthroating is so amazing.
Thereās just something amazing about feeling your entire manhood completely taken inside a woman and feeling that pressure around the base of your cock.
If there was one feeling Iād wish women could experience about being a man, itās that. Iād wave a magic wand and let me and OH trade places for a day just so she could experience how wonderful that is. Though she may not want to go back so Iād have to have that ādayā set to auto expire 
Just as others have said, there are more reasons why deepthroating is sexy. For me personally it shifts based on scenario. If Iāmā¦
Watching a deepthroat session:
-The noises
-Saliva
-Red/bloodshot eyes
-Running mascara
-The look on her face as her gag reflex is activated and then passed
-The struggle instinct to push away when she canāt breathe
-The gasping sounds she makes when she can finally breathe again
-Seeing her being used
-Also romantic deepthroat is hot
Experiencing deepthroat (with OH, and admittedly not happened yet):
-Wouldnāt enjoy being rough with her (leave that to the pros)
-Mind would be blown simply by the fact that sheād go through the effort of learning and practicing to do that for me.
So basically a summary of what everyone else said.
@Everyone Regarding the topic of the thread, I have a beginner pegging set with two dildos. The larger of the two is 1.5" Diameter x 7" Length (4.71" circumfrence if I did my math correct) which Iām using to practice with orally and anally for when I get the guts to ask OH to try it on me.
With practice Iām finally able to fully take that dildo all the way down to itās base orally. Though only once per session and Iām not close to being able to take thrusting yet.
That dildo is somewhat flexible and I found that once I hit my gag reflex, pushing it down firm and quickly allowed me to take it all without gagging/vomiting.
Disclaimer: DO NOT just slam a dildo or real cock into the back of your throat. That worked for me with the specific toy I have. Each person will be different as will the methods of getting comfortable with deepthroat.
I recommend getting a dildo to practice on. Mainly because even if you have an understanding partner, the giver typically feels embarrassed or ashamed when they gag for the first few times. That could just make the scene awkward and make the giver more hesitant to try it again.
When youāre alone, you can gag or cry or get the dry stomach heaves and you wonāt be embarrassed in front of anyone.
Iād say begin by slowly teasing the back of your throat with a dildo. Feel how it tries to activate your gag reflex. Eventually youāre going to have to push it through because itās going to be tight in the back of your throat. Relaxing my throat helped me a lot. Sounds like only a sarcastic command the guy gives the girl in the online films, but it does actually help. Of course warming up and getting used to it does help in the beginning too.
Beyond a dildo though, I got no help unfortunately. The dildo I have is flexible, a hard cock will probably be more challenging.
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You see, none of this sounds good to me 
I think the problem is that Iām naturally more of a dom - so all of this that you explained, makes me feel and look like a sub.
Even watching someone else deep throating - I just feel bad for the person who is struggling.
Maybe it just isnāt for me 
@anon8189768 thanks for taking the time to explain. Thatās really insightful 
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Seen some porn where the woman actually is sick deep throating, not a turn on at all! 
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I love doing deepthroat, I love that I can get his 9inches in, he says itās a massive turn on Iām drooling and the noises I make
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@Cupc8kes I can see that. For me personally, what I enjoy watching and what I enjoy doing are sometimes so different that youād almost think I have split personality.
With OH I would not enjoy the rough stuff. I would recommend viewing a couple āloving/romanticā deepthroat videos and see how you feel about that. Just to get an idea of how it looks in that setting.
But yes, in general it is more of a āsubā act as even the romantic deepthroats are not especially comfortable (I imagine). But if you just want to do something new to please your OH I can guarantee he wonāt be disappointed 
@WillC There is definitely some more extreme stuff out there. Personally I can really get into the films where she introduces her lunch onto his manhood.
I admittedly have some very strong tastes when it comes to adult films. Itās fantasy for me and I enjoy everything from the basic and romantic to the rough and extreme.
IRL however I am very much not into performing the extreme stuff as the āgiverā, but as a sub for Mistress I would absolutely love, LOVE for her to use and abuse me and Iād willingly āreceiveā the extreme stuff.
Getting to show Mistress how much Iād take from her and let her do to me, whether open and āvoluntaryā or restrained and āforcedā, would be my ultimate fantasy.
Only thing is OH is even more gentle than me IRL so I donāt get my sub fantasy realized. Not yet anyway
I also get we all have different tastes. I know I like quite a bit so I certainly donāt think any less of anyone for liking or not liking something (and not at all saying you do, Iām just sharing my thoughts and feelings)
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Some of us men are blessed in the fact we do not have cocks that are the diameter of a soup can and the better part of a foot long . If I were not married , I would be happy to lone out as a trainer .
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On that note people, please donāt ācomplimentā your OHās cock by saying something like āIām really glad youāre not bigger. It would hurt if you were.ā
As sincere as that compliment is, itās almost never going to be received how you intend it.
OH & I have had the talk about whether I wished that she had larger breasts or if she wished I had a bigger cock. Iām a standard 6" but I felt like a 2" when she said that lol
Edited. Thanks @Ian_Chimp
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But surely only because you still mistakenly believe bigger is better?
(and gentlemen can have opinions on their partnersā penis size too 
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That was the problem it wasnāt meant to be extreme, just amateur, but when she gagged and threw up a bit, it kind of put me off!
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Oh yes. My apologies. I was not trying to imply otherwise. My sincere apologies 
Oh wow, that would be very awkward to see in a non extreme scene lol
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So what positions do people suggest? Usually when Iām giving oral to my OH, either he is lying on his back and Iām sat between his legs or Iām kneeling on the floor infront of him while heās either standing (my favourite - we once did this with me blindfolded and he played with my nipples, itās been to long since then!) or sitting on the edge of the bed / sofa. Are there any better positions?
I think it was @Calie that said its best to try and have your head back so that your chin/throat is more in a straight line.
So for example if heās standing and youāre kneeling, itās not the greatest for deep throating.
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Iāll have a think and see if I can work it out! I want to stay in control and want to avoid him trying to thrust or anything like that. Iāll see if heās interested in trying too. He loves oral so I canāt see him saying no but Iād better check first!
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On your back on the bed, with your head almost kinda hanging down over the edge is the best position I can think of. For that position though it has itās pros and cons. Some of the cons are unfortunately things you wonāt that you mentioned you wanted.
Pros:
-Easiest to get near perfect mouth/throat/neck alignment
Cons:
-Feels more vulnerable
-Bit of an āadvancedā position
-Little control of thrusting
-For extended time, blood can rush to your head
I see girls do super deepthroat on their knees but I have no idea how that actually is able to work scientifically.
As far as him wanting to try it, I have yet to even hear of a cock rejecting the idea of fully exploring an OHās mouth, throat, & neck.
Maybe only if heās afraid to hurt you. Though if you happen to be in the middle of a bj and decide to just take him deeper, I doubt heāll protest. ā¦unless heās only wanting the bj as a starter and wants to finish somewhere else.
Edit: Sorry, this edit was much more than my usual ātypo correctionā
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Thanks @anon8189768. Iāll give it a go at some point. It would probably worth having some kind of unspoken āsafewordā in case I need him to stop. It plays to my sub fantasies so is something Iād like to try. Before you ask (after my other thread), heās generally fairly receptive to me giving him oral, and since I enjoy it anyway, thatās fine by me. Generally Iām quite happy to give with no expectation to receive.
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Not to sound crass, but there probably wonāt be too many āwordsā in general with deepthroat. Maybe agree that pushing against his thighs is a sign you need him to back out for a moment and reassess 
As far as cunnilingus, itās probably typically seen as something one does for their partner. But as much as my OH may enjoy how my mouth makes her feel, I PROMISE Iām enjoying at least as much as she is and honestly more. Itās one of my favorite things to do in the bedroom (or anywhere else).
If someoneās partner hasnāt tried cunnilingus on them yet, imho itās really them who is missing out.
Edit: I didnāt initially see āunspokenā in your post. Thanks @Kitty-Cat01
Thatās what I meant by āunspokenā, I wasnāt sure what to call a safeword that isnāt a word lol. I was thinking something along the same lines as you!
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Itās not my cup of tea. Thereās one for you.
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