How do people feel about rimming??

I give mrstoysrus a little licking every now and then, I’d like it done to me, but I’m a really hairy guy so don’t blame her for not wanting to do it to me

So in the early years of me and my OH dating, we were tipsy and in a 69 position one night and I guess I somehow went from eating one part of her to the other, and I will never forget the moan she made or the fact that she immediately started to return the favor to me, which was a new thing that I’d never experienced before but felt fantastic!

We did this a few more times sort of naturally, as in we’d be 69ing and then work that part in but then one day she informed me that she did not want to do it anymore as it made her feel “small”, and so we’ve never done it again.

That said, whenever we are 69ing I do get tempted to stick my tongue up there again, but would never do so without talking about it and getting her permission and consent first.

And now that we’re even more sexually open and experienced, I bet she would say yes if I asked her to rim me but she may not want to receive at this time as the last time I asked if she’d like to try any anal play on her she said it wasn’t really her thing.

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Hi Guys, me and my partner have been trying new things recently and after douching my girlfriend was open to try rimming, it took a while for me to open up to it but when she went down on my ass it felt AMAZING, was just wandering if anyone else enjoys rimming/ being rimmed and how was your experience ?

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Nah it’s not for me and for those who enjoy it fair play to you not something I’d want to try . But enjoy it and I am sure there’s loads on here that enjoy it :+1:

If someone wants to have a go on me I don’t mind it, but it’s not anywhere near my top ten list of things to do

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As long as its ultra clean im in … literally

I don’t have masses of experience with it, but I had an Italian ex many years ago who rather enjoyed giving & I have to say I didn’t mind it. I think sometimes it can be more of a mental block kinda thing & it was certainly different initially. to be honest, as long as I’m getting clitoral stimulation as well then I’m good with it :laughing:

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I have rimmed Mrs. Val but she hasn’t done it to me. The reason I do it to her is simply because I would like her to do it to me - some subliminal messaging…lol.

I think rimming a woman is part of a love of mine. I love giving oral and enjoy that her anus is right next to the vagina. I think there are more nerve endings in men’s ass than women’s (Is this even true?), or, as mentioned previously, there are more negative feeling around anal rimming and sex due to trauma from childbirth. They don’t have a prostate, so I think things would be different if there is was a G-spot in a woman’s ass and there would be far more interest in it from the ladies.

You actually don’t hear much from many ladies on their pure enjoyment of anal sex like men. Regardless, I love it and don’t really care if she does it to me but one day if she sticks her tongue in my ass, you KNOW I will post on here… until then…

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I like to give and receive but I am more self conscious so don’t tend to be a receiver often.

Its not something I would do the first few times with a new partner but once I am more comfortable with them and sure of their cleanliness then if they are willing then so am I. Its not a deal breaker if they’re not into it.

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He’s rimmed me a couple of times but that’s only because it was spur of the moment thing. I did enjoy it.
If it was planned I don’t think I would enjoy it as much as being in the moment, I’ll always be thinking am I clean :face_with_peeking_eye: and I won’t enjoy it as much. Plus it’s not one of our favourites anyway, he much prefers stimulating my clit with his tongue instead of rimming :melting_face: and knows he can get me to orgasm this way, to which we both enjoy.

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I have to admit that I’m a bit of a lover of rimming, both giving and receiving! Don’t get me wrong I’m always self conscious when I’m receiving but I don’t let that stop me from enjoying it - plus it’s normally a prelude to a bit of pegging so win win :wink:

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I personally love rimming my guy. It was something that he used to never think he would be into but i just went for it one time and that’s all it took. He loves it and so do I. The kink is fun and I love to see how his body starts to tremble and shake. It’s a definite turn on for both of us. :yum:

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I’ve only ever rimmed my wife and she loves it. She hasn’t rimmed me as it’s not really her thing. More than happy to be a giver rather than a receiver for this. I do watch a lot of videos of guys being rimmed and I know a lot of people on here say it’s good. So perhaps one day you never know.

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I love both giving and receiving, though I personally love giving more and have done it to both men and women. I’ve found it’s a great sexual act for power dynamics as it enhances the feelings of Degredation and submission on the person who’s givings side. Though of course is also amazing do without power dynamics in place as its a very sensual act and feeling.

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My wife and I will often make sure we’ve both had a shower prior to getting frisky due to our current schedules where sex is pretty much relegated to the end of the day, so in that case I’d be fine doing it to her knowing that she’s recently washed up down there and is squeaky clean, but otherwise I’d probably not do it.

Being a somewhat hirsute guy, I’m a bit self-conscious, so while I know it can feel very good I’d also be a little distracted unless I’d had a few drinks or an edible beforehand to free up my inhibitions.

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I (a man) greatly enjoy receiving when I know I’m clean or at least not completely objectionable. I love a good 69ing that includes just sitting right on my wife’s face, usually while grinding my penis between her breasts. Facing the other way, I can alternate between putting my penis or balls in her mouth and being rimmed while the rest sits on her eyes and cheeks.She enjoys that I enjoy it, and really enjoys the total submission and element of degradation.

I’ve rimmed her a couple times but it didn’t really do much for her, and I’d much rather just be going down on her.

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My favourite thing is when she cuffs my wrists to my anal hook then sits on my face so that i can rim her. The feeling of submission is amazing. Its also the position where she squirts when she comes and that is the icing on the cake for me.

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My wife doesn’t let me go down on her fully. She says she’s way too sensitive.

Bit of a shame as my previous partners have said I was the best ever oral for them so it seems like it’s my natural superpower but my wife can’t relax enough to enjoy it.

We’ve been together a long time but think maybe only 2 or 3 times maximum when she’s let me make her cum using my tongue on her. Now I have to go all around the houses and not spend to long on her clit as she can’t take it.

I doubt she’ll let me rim her. She’s the only person that’s ever rimmed me and it feels great.

Anyone purchased a rimming butt plug and if so how close does it feel to a real rim job?

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Had no idea such a plug existed may have to look for one now haha :slightly_smiling_face: :upside_down_face: :slightly_smiling_face:

It’s on the LH website. Think it’s blue. Butt plug rimming butt plug. I’ll read the reviews again soon it’s fairly new our I think.

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