If you asked me maybe 7 years ago I’d definitely have said straight guy.
Today after several years of being very active on cam with all manner of other guys and having had my interest in wearing lingerie reawakened then I’m very ambiguous.
Am I bi interested?
Am I just kinky?
Am I straight-ish?
I know definitions are very blurred and probably not so relevant but I want to know if anyone else feels like this?
I even recently categorised myself in my recent work staff survey as being in a non heterosexual category but I don’t remember which one I chose
Interested in the views and experiences of the forum members
Thanks
Chucky
1 Like
Could you see yourself being called Pan-sexual?
Or Demi-?
There are so many labels to choose.
I’m happy just saying I’m me sexual and leave it at that and go with the flow you are comfortable with.
1 Like
@JGood yeah I guess I should have clarified that I want to find a better way to describe myself to the guys that I hook up with for the first time on the app I cam on so they’re not reading my whole life story lol
Pansexual works best as it covers all bases.
1 Like
I am a (deep breath) heteroflexible sapiosexual demisexual submissive switch tomboy 
1 Like
Say 3x fast when tipsy
2 Likes
You buy the wine and we’ll see what I can do. Deal? 
Personally, sounds like you just have fetishes. Namely a performance fetish and a wearing lingerie fetish.
3 Likes
@KinkyMira maybe you’re right
I find so many guys that love wearing lingerie even if it’s only wives or family members that I do wonder if you can call wearing lingerie a fetish anymore ?
You’re definitely right about that exhibitionist streak though when I cam I quite often only look at myself on screen
Quite a few times I’ve told the other guys I’m sorry for being self obsessed and missing their money shot lol
@chuckychester35 That’s probably a good point about the lingerie fetish, I mean somebody I was talking to a few weeks ago thought anal sex was a fetish. I don’t think so, not these days.
I have the performance fetish. I love love love watching people have sex and even more having people watch me have sex. But for me, it has to be in the room. Camming doesn’t do it for me.
2 Likes
@KinkyMira omg I’ve led such a sheltered life lol
I didn’t experiment with anything sexual in my teens etc I was a skinny spotty kid
Ever since I realised my exhibitionist and voyeur tendencies I’ve always wanted to try something in person either being watched or watching
I’ve said many times if god forbid I found myself single again I would love to explore this side of my sexuality
I think the fantasy right now would be a couple with the guy and woman in lingerie with me watching and then we swapped partners and were watched
1 Like
I usually just cut the labels out and say you are you and that’s good enough, no one can do you better than you 
pretty sure there’s a Dr Seuss quote similar to this 
1 Like