When I was with a partner, the way I used to initiate any sort of fun (we did not go “all the way”) was to go up behind her and put my hands in her favourite places, start to kiss her down the side of her neck, maybe even a little nip too… if that turned her on, her hands would find their way into my crotch and she would stimulate me that way
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Why is it that people think their partner will want to have sex when they have to be a parent to them?! Look and see what needs to be done about the house and do it, and then maybe their partner will find them sexy and want sex.
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That’s very judgmental. Maybe said person spends all their time doing things around the house and it’s still not enough
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Not sure if this is any use, but as a single (20) male whos never done it before, i feel like i would probably feel akward asking to do it for the first time or probably wait till my other half asks first, not sure if thats just me being akward or kind of being scared in a way haha
I didn’t reply to you. If it doesn’t apply to you, then it wasn’t for you 
It certainly doesn’t apply to me but I can still comment on it surely
I flash him by knickers or put my hand down his pants - generally does it
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Of course you can 
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The downside for me is cause I’ve always been single and pleased myself I sometimes struggle to find the same enjoyment when someone else tries to do it for me as I’m used to knowing how to do it all myself 
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Tell him his services are required or yea just flash my tits or send a nsfw pic 
Him, try to dry hump me at the dishwasher or have a grope.
We arent that romantic at initiating, but works for us.
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When you’re with someone for a while they kind of learn how you like things, and by the same token you learn what they like too
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What is the little blue symbol on the like button, I can’t work it out? Thought I’d ask you cos you seem to know lots of stuff
If we had sex every time he did either of those, I’d never not be having sex! xx
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I know you’re not asking me, but as @AJSTAR hasn’t seen this to reply, its a hug. The 2 shades of blue are 2 people hugging.
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I can see it now, thanks @JoCat you’re a star. That’s been bothering me for weeks
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Blue symbol as in the hug emoji? 
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Haha beat me to it!! 
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As a couple who have been together a while this is easy. I guess it’s probably a 70/30 split with me initiating the most. I always wake up horny so some morning fun is usual but may not include penetration. Evening sex could just be as simple as a kiss and the way I or she says ‘are you coming to bed’. To be honest it doesn’t need her to do much to initiate sex. ‘I know you’re tired, I’m going to go to bed to use my toys’ is a line she’ll sometimes use. Of course I always join her.
Sometimes we will flirt through the day. I might text or a call during the day and let her know how horny I am. If she’s lingerie shopping she always sends me photos from the changing room when she tries stuff on and ask me to pick my favourite. If she has an early morning gym session she’ll sometimes send me a photo from her changing room after her shower and tell me she’ll be home soon :).
Some sessions aren’t so much initiated but opportunities we take advantage of. If we have the house to ourselves we have can have longer sessions and be a little noisier. I can add some restraints and spanking.
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Its nice to see such a mix of young and older enjoying both being the ones to begin the event and also being excited when their partner initiates it.
It is such a natural, lovely experience whoever begins and however it is carried out providing it is between two (or more) consensual adults.
Sometimes it just takes a certain look, a whispered comment in your ear or a surprise set of clothes to let the other know they are in for a rocking good time.
It will come naturally when the time is right, I have never gone all the way with another partner (my confidence issues) and I am turning 30 this year but in the relationships I have had where there has been passionate kissing or sexual contact I have always initiated the foreplay.
N.B I am very slowly putting my confidence issues to one side and hope to be in a full sexual relationship soon!
Walked into the living room this morning in and opem front faux leather thong, sporting an extremely ridged erection.
No words were uttered, the OH simply slipped off her dressing gown and we went to it on the living room floor.
Worked twice now. 
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