Before being in a relationship I liked to explore different ideas and I tried using a steaming platform like Chaturbate to see how it was and I found it really fun, provided a great rush.
Once in a relationship I stopped using it. I have read a few stories recently of couples where one partner used something like OnlyFans.
It raised two main questions I was curious about:
I’m not the biggest exhibitionist so have to be in the right mood (it’s a confidence thing).
I prefer posting photos on appropriate social media/community type sites to live camming (although I’ve done that too). Occasionally I’d post videos. When I was single, I would send more posts/videos privately than I do now. Otherwise, I like being watched at sex parties (and fetish events but I’m not sure that necessarily counts as exhibitionism as not everything is always that sexual).
I am in a relationship but he knows what I post etc. We both know where each other’s boundaries are and respect them. Although everyone will have different boundaries and opinions on what is and isn’t ok.
That’s super interesting. Great point about boundaries as well, that’s an important consideration too.
I’ve been in a relationship for about 15 years now and married for 6, looking back I’ve always had an exhibitionist kink which I’ve generally repressed but as I get older I would love to explore more both with and without my partner.
I hear quite a bit about online sex parties which seems like a good relatively safe and anonymous way to explore and build up to something more real and I love the idea of making pics and videos as a couple (OF, Twitter, MLNP or some kind of streaming site etc.) my Mrs. is quite shy so it would be a big leap for her …
To answer the questions:
at the moment it’s really just through enjoying fantasies, stories and a little personal exploration (I don’t currently share pics or vids as my partner wouldn’t be comfortable with it as things stand but I like to film and photograph myself and that is quite a turn on even though I don’t expect anyone to see the images)
not easily, I guess it feels like a long process of gradually building up a sense of adventure around some of these activities and testing our boundaries together as a couple and as individuals…
Great insight. Hopefully you can find steps within her comfort zone and enjoy that together.
I tan in my special area where the neighbors can not easily see me . However we have a lot of small planes in our area and I imagine “several” have noticed me near nude and nude laying in the sun . I also wear very short cut off jeans around the neighborhood and no shirt . I often flirt with several neighbor women . I especially like showing them I have no tan lines that they can see . My main outlet for showing most of myself off is in photos here . You may notice I have posted several .