Before being in a relationship I liked to explore different ideas and I tried using a steaming platform like Chaturbate to see how it was and I found it really fun, provided a great rush.
Once in a relationship I stopped using it. I have read a few stories recently of couples where one partner used something like OnlyFans.
It raised two main questions I was curious about:
How do/did you satisfy your inner exhibitionist?
If you have a partner, how do/did you satisfy that itch?
I’m not the biggest exhibitionist so have to be in the right mood (it’s a confidence thing).
I prefer posting photos on appropriate social media/community type sites to live camming (although I’ve done that too). Occasionally I’d post videos. When I was single, I would send more posts/videos privately than I do now. Otherwise, I like being watched at sex parties (and fetish events but I’m not sure that necessarily counts as exhibitionism as not everything is always that sexual).
I am in a relationship but he knows what I post etc. We both know where each other’s boundaries are and respect them. Although everyone will have different boundaries and opinions on what is and isn’t ok.
I’ve been in a relationship for about 15 years now and married for 6, looking back I’ve always had an exhibitionist kink which I’ve generally repressed but as I get older I would love to explore more both with and without my partner.
I hear quite a bit about online sex parties which seems like a good relatively safe and anonymous way to explore and build up to something more real and I love the idea of making pics and videos as a couple (OF, Twitter, MLNP or some kind of streaming site etc.) my Mrs. is quite shy so it would be a big leap for her …
To answer the questions:
at the moment it’s really just through enjoying fantasies, stories and a little personal exploration (I don’t currently share pics or vids as my partner wouldn’t be comfortable with it as things stand but I like to film and photograph myself and that is quite a turn on even though I don’t expect anyone to see the images)
not easily, I guess it feels like a long process of gradually building up a sense of adventure around some of these activities and testing our boundaries together as a couple and as individuals…
I tan in my special area where the neighbors can not easily see me . However we have a lot of small planes in our area and I imagine “several” have noticed me near nude and nude laying in the sun . I also wear very short cut off jeans around the neighborhood and no shirt . I often flirt with several neighbor women . I especially like showing them I have no tan lines that they can see . My main outlet for showing most of myself off is in photos here . You may notice I have posted several .