How Do You Work things Out When You and Your Partner Have The Same Tastes?

This question is related to when you have the same taste in either men or women. Last night one of my partners introduced me to their newest interest. An amazingly beautiful woman and I knew we were in trouble! :wink:

This woman is my type everyday and twice on Sunday, she like me is a beliver in RA and during our conversation it was apparent there was attraction all around. But in fairness to my partner there is no way I’d act on it because they deserve to have their space as they figure out what they are going for. My partner texted me a picture of them with thier fists up and said…”I’ll fight for her 2 out of three…? And this is why I love them.

Anyone else have this experience?

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I think communication is key in any open/poly relationship. As long as you don’t act on it without your partner being comfortable with it then being attracted to someone your partner also like is very normal. It can be a little joke between you or depending on how your relationship works it could lead to something exciting for all involved.

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@BbwSub92 Cool to be your first post! Welcome to the forum.

I agree. The fortunate thing for us we keep our individual relationships pretty separate. But the sexual tension can be fun to play with. Just something to tease each other with.

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I had no idea love honey had forums until my friend mentioned it today. I am so excited to find out because I am so sex positive and talking about sex and relationships is my favorite topic.

If you have agreed to keep things private then as long as you are honest about any attraction/jealousy/feelings that come up then it shouldn’t have a negative effect. Clearly you both have excellent taste x

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I ‘m new here for the most part. Likewsie a friend @JGood told me about so decided to check it out.

Yes, we do have excellent taste! :wink:

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