Thought I’d share my experience with enjoying women’s lingerie
It started with my oh getting some new satin lingerie which I love to see her in, I then found myself putting the washing away one day and thinking I wounder how it feels on, so I slipped the nickers on and even tho it felt really nice I thought this is wrong and took them off.
Time went bye and found myself trying them on again but this time with the suspender belt as well… same again thought this is wrong what’s up with me and took them off.
So you guessed it, put them on again but this time just sat enjoying the feel of them the knickers and belt with stockings I loved it and didn’t feel bad wearing them,
So months went bye enjoying the feeling when I was alone and putting on different sets until I thought what about the matching bras, I’d never gone that far but thought I’d try it, now my oh is quite big in the boob area so wasn’t sure how it would work but found that the matching sets are all satin molded cups so they hold them self’s quite nicely and a couple of pairs of socks tucked in and jobs a good one
Now I know I look completely ridiculous in the full bra,knickers and suspender belt but my god I love it now the feeling is amazing and now I find myself putting the washing away while wearing it.
Do I tell her maybe not and to be honest I enjoyed the time alone and having a bit of solo fun
Long message I know but for anyone who’s unsure about it just try it I did and I’m glad of it
@0001 I found wearing women’s underwear a turn on since my early teens, when I use to live on my own it was much easier. Now I am married I wear them in the mornings and when she goes out. I have told her I have a kink for wearing stuff like that, but she aint keen on it. Once I was drunk and decided to put them on and walked into the room. Told me to take them off, but she didn’t notice the bulge lol. She is out tonight so I told her I was having a bath and slipping into something comfortable she replied into what, I was nervous to reply with what I had on of hers.
First of all @0001 I know exactly what you mean, but, don’t worry, it isn’t wrong to enjoy wearing women’s lingerie.
You may be feeling guilty because you’re wearing her lingerie and she doesn’t know about it.
Talk to her about how you love the feel of her lingerie, and perhaps ask to try the knickers on.
That’s how I got into wearing my OH’s lingerie and I now have a larger collection than she does !
Good luck with your lingerie adventures
… and further to the above advice, I found it also helped to explain to my wife that one of the reasons I enjoyed wearing lingerie was it made me picture her wearing the same items all day long, which got me turned on.
I have worn lingerie in my early adulthood with the knowledge and participation of my GF of the time. It was fun and enjoyable and having her participate made it even better.
Then a few years ago which is decades later I did it again by myself for about three months. Again enjoyable but not as fun as my wife doesn’t know. While I believe if I told her she would accept me doing it but would not be interested in participating or seeing me.
So many times I see others say “just tell her how it makes you feel” but I don’t think enough is said about consideration of your partner and how it might make them feel. They may accept you doing it but it might make them feel uneasy.
I do t think there is anything wrong with dressing and I have enjoyed it greatly myself. But everyone knows their partner the best and they should consider if it might make their partner uneasy. If so perhaps keeping it to one’s self is best. Now if you truly believe your partner may be inboard with k owing go for it. Just don’t always think that because some other guy told their partner and it worked out fabulously that it will be the same for your partner.
At least enjoy it yourself, there are a lot of types of dressing to explore. I always enjoyed the sluttier side of dressing and had some mind blowing sex when dressed.
Well you should always be open and upfront with your partner and explain it well for them to understand, I would rather know something and would feel happy that the person felt they could be totally open with me.
I bought my first top shelf magazines aged about 18
A couple of months later I ended up shopping in the local department store lingerie section and bought a full set of stockings and suspenders bra n panties
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