Really depends on the position and how much she teases, if she climbs on my face I can be done in a few minutes, but if she’s just kissing me I tend to last a little while as I have always been a long laster.
I really like when she gets in control and edges me a few times, having a quick hand job is great to just get off, but if you edge a few times and really push the limits it can be super intense
That could be painfull will try that
Some of y’all are making it sound like a chore that you just need to get done. I don’t give hand jobs like that, I don’t see the point if enjoyment isn’t the goal.
I understand wanting a quick release, but if I’m going to be involved then its not about making him orgasm quick, unless thats the challenge.
Depends how much giver is enjoying giving it. In my experience you can tell when someone is enjoying giving a HJ and just wants to pleasure you coupled with good technique, if the giver isn’t really in to it (tired, arm aches etc.) but still had good technique then usually it kills the mood a bit and despite it feeling good it just loses that extra something that’s needed to get me off so it can take longer, which in turn demotivates the giver more and can just lead to just having sex to make me cum instead.
All depends how horny the guy is as to how quickly he may finish from a handjob and if he has experience in edging
We don’t do quick hand jobs.
She enjoys the whole experience too much to rush it. She can make a hand job last 2 hours if she’s in the mood. Most times I don’t get to come at all.
@rockstar your woman is my hero 
Mine too.
My only regret is that it took so long (40 odd years) for us to establish the relationship we have now. We should have talked and talked when we were younger.
For foreplay I like a slow teasing handjob which includes teasing my balls rather than a rapid wank. I can last quite a while like that and if we are curled up on the sofa with the house to ourselves she can/will often tease my cock for an hour or more which I find incredible. If she’s just trying to finish me off, maybe after she’s cum and I’m close from other sex then a hand job is more vigorous and I can usually cum in a couple of minutes.
I find it really hard to finish by a handjob a lot of the time. It will often take over 20 to 30 minutes or just not cause a climax at all.
OH will often “take me in hand”, taking pleasure in making it last an agonising amount of time. Sometimes, she will drop the effort and finish me with a good pegging.
Sometimes she encourages me to DIY. This usually takes 5 to 10 minutes. A little less if I am wearing lingerie, which is the norm.
I’m bi and love doing this for other guys, and it can take a great variety of time to complete depending on how horny/far gone the chap is - my quickest this year was an innocuous-looking small asian chap who turned out to have an enormous penis - he came off with a big load in about a minute, very nice too
Yesterday the first session lasted an hour with no orgasm and the second session was about 30 minutes ending in a vibrator assisted orgasm.
… everyone really should see this post. It resonates so hard!!