I just read about men complaining about how they’re perfunctory or too fast. Aren’t hand jobs to help him get off when you’re not in the mood and if it’s been a few days? I finish my hubby in 1-2 minutes. Trick is to grip hard and focus on the head. And to not give a hand job if you’ve had sex in the last few days.
A hand job for foreplay is different
Depends on state of arousal, visual stimulation, strength of grip, motion deployed, speed of movement. Usually from soft to spurt it between 5 to 10 minutes.
The worse thing is the OH losing, changing grip or speed, just as I am about to cum. If that happens then it game over, as from that point ot can easily take half an hour, before we get to the same stage again.
Maybe I’m lucky he finishes fast. Usually it’s been about a week since he’s had any and he’s only 1-2 minutes. 5-10 minutes would have a sore arm.
I think visual stimulation is very important and is for me. The person giving the hand job would need to be wearing some sexy underwear or very little and be very vocal to help me during a hand job. @Jen13579
About 3-5 mins, also really depends on if she naked or wearing sexy underwear as I need visual stimulation too
If I take to long she normally says her arm hurts so I have to finish off
How many days of abstinence before a hand job most times? Sure mine likes a visual but doesn’t need it
I make him finish too after a few minutes if it lasts that long. How long has it been though before the HJ? For us it’s about a week and it doesn’t take long
It’s more of an occasional thing for my wife to give me a HJ, but when she does it’s worth it
We usually have a mutual session or if she’s not in the mood I normally sort myself out
If I’m giving myself a HJ I can last anything from 2-10 mins
I find unless my wife applies stimulation to the frenulum i can last for an extended period.
I find the original question a bit limiting to be honest.
If my OH is giving me a handjob, I love it to last far longer than just a couple of minutes. It’s incredibly arousing to watch her play, and the lighter she starts the better. I could watch/feel that for ages!
I do get the ‘quick release’ aspect of a speedy handjob, but why rush such a delicious activity?
For us rarely they last longer. Most times it’s for a speedy release if tired and haven’t had sex that week. A quick hand job over a condom gives him that release and doesn’t take more than a minute or two or have any clean up. And good for period week
Yes the part under the penis by the head? Stoking the condom hard over that part of the penis is the fastest way to finish him
When he is hard I can get to orgasm him within 1 minute
Secret is tight grip around the head
Right? It doesn’t take long. And do you finish him quick usually?
Interesting replies, in particular to attention being paid to the head.
Apparently (or so I read) that’s the least sensitive spot for men.
As far as me… the lower third is where it’s at if you want me to be quicker.
On average I’m probably <5 mins if doing it to myself, and 5-10 if it’s someone else.
@Jen13579 and fair enough to Jen! 
We all have our differences. I often feel I don’t get to fool around as often as I’d like, so when I do I like it to last 
To be honest, i dont enjoy being brought to orgasm as a way of just relieving me.
Much prefer if done in mutual masterbation.
One of my most intense orgasms was while my wife was wanking me off , while i was using a vibrator on her clit.
While lost in her building orgasm , she was wanking me furiously fast .
Just as she convulsed loudly in orgasm , I shot over her face, hair and boobs.
It was one of the most intense orgasms i have ever experienced and one of her most satisfying.
We both laughed ( well mostly me) at how she was drenched in cum…she offered more of a rolled eyes expression.
I normally last about 7 mins. If OH is really into it then 5 mins
I know how to get him to finish quickly but I don’t usually, because I love doing it for him and like him to enjoy the feeling for longer, he never asks for one so I enjoy just making him feel good and desired. Saying that I am merciful when he starts squirming. It’s the only time I get that kind of control aside from BJ’s so I like to savour the moment 
I haven’t timed it. Feels like probably 5-10 minutes but that’s without me being visual. Probably would take less time if I got visual 
I agree with @Iwill
A quick wank is not really part of our repertoire for us.
If it is, I will usually do it myself, mostly in the shower and I’ll be rubbing against my wife’s leg or pussy while we kiss.
She often finishes me by hand - but slow and sexy. She does amazing things with her hands 
