Always thought I was straight… Many years into our relationship we was talking about women, when watching porn together I always asked for lesbian. He turned round to me and said is there something your not telling me. At this point, I knew I’m bisexual. Hoping one day he will let me fill my fantasy to experiment with another woman. Until then, I’ve still got the D. 
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It’s an odd one for me. I am straight and find women of all shapes and sizes sexy in their own way.
I don’t find guys attractive at all BUT I have this odd thing in my head where I want to try everything once in my life including being with a guy. I don’t think I’d go all the way but get really turned on thinking about stripping with a guy and kissing, frotting, sucking etc. I’m aware that’s contradictory as I said I’m straight! If I try it and don’t enjoy it then it answers the question
I guess if you put a label on me I would be Bi. Love women and 99% of my sex life I have only had straight sex. There was a time in our marriage where we were separated and I explored sex with another man. In that time I both bottomed and topped, lots of oral and had a MMM threesome with the guy I was having sex with a couple of times. That was quite a few years ago and since back with my wife I have not had MM sex again. I do fantasize about sucking a cock again but would only venture out if god forbid I was not with my wife. To be honest I did very much enjoy sucking a cock and would again if single.
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Very honest post JMS55 and I would tend to agree with most of what you said. There are many “talk about sex” message boards out there but what caught my interest here is the diversity and honesty of most posters without the trolls. You hit both of those in your post IMO. Thank you for sharing.
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Not sure if we need to identify with a particular label - I 
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Really good question this.
I have only ever been with women and am only attracted to women. BUT as a few others have said, I am intrigued by the idea of playing with another penis whether that be on a man or a trans person. I can honestly say I’ve never looked at a male and been attracted to them or wanted any sort of romance with them but I have seen other penis’ and wanted to play with them (oral, anal, frotting etc)
I think must have this has come from my love of being pegged and then the mind wonders to what a real penis would feel like. I also often find myself enjoying the sight of a nice penis in porn more than the sight of a woman hence my current go to is trans porn.
So what would I describe myself as 
That is the million dollar question. The only answer I can come up with is ‘me’ - I’m me!!!
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Not at all straight and even though I’m married to my wife of nearly 30 years I would definitely say I’m more on the gay side of bisexual, my FBF of 40 years totally agrees as she always thought/knew I was gay way before I came out as bisexual to her.
Great post Forever_Curious and thank you for your honesty. [quote=“Forever_Curious, post:29, topic:303398, full:true”]
Really good questions for this.
I have only ever been with women and am only attracted to women. BUT as a few others have said, I am intrigued by the idea of playing with another penis whether that be on a man or a trans person. I can honestly say I’ve never looked at a male and been attracted to them or wanted any sort of romance with them but I have seen other penis’ and wanted to play with them (oral, anal, frotting etc)
[quote] I think must have this has come from my love of being pegged and then the mind wonders to what a real penis would feel like. I also often find myself enjoying the sight of a nice penis in porn more than the sight of a woman hence my current go to is trans porn.
So what would I describe myself as That is the million dollar question. The only answer I can come up with is ‘me’ - I’m me!!!
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Really really great replies to this question BTW.
Great reply Forever_Curious.
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Your marriage still doing okay given you are BS? Good on you if it still works.
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It totally works for me, I’m bisexual yes, my preference leant more towards men in my teens and early 20’s but I still dated girls too and when I met my wife I knew she was the one, not gonna lie, probably men still get my attention more than women.
We also have a very anally dominated sexual relationship for both of us. Pegging is a big part of my sexlife so that sort of satisfies that itch.
Oh and I don’t mind a lable myself, I’m homobisexual, it gives me solace as to who I am.
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Wow. Awesome share Yes_man. Does your wife have any issues knowing you are more into guys?
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It doesn’t get mentioned really, she just accepts I’m bisexual and ive had gay relationships in the past but then I have to accept she’s bisexual too, I know it sounds a bit, yeah really, but before me her only sexual encounter was with her female best friend and that was just fuck buddies. My FBF thinks we’re the weirdest but most perfect pairing!!
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Wow! Not trying for a group hug here but absolutely love your self confidence in who you are and your interests. I am impressed. Not many exude the confidence you have shown in your posts. Good on ya…
The label thing, well, we are all different. It was just a question I wanted to throw out there. Absolutely love the self confidence BTW. That is sexier than the body bits IMO.
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Meant to be a fun but very honest question. Your reply was great BTW.
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How do you manage your sex life now?
Do you mind me asking how old you are? I’m 40 and probably in a similar position. I identified as gay growing up but life was so prejudice back then.
@wc I’m 50, Must admit I hid my sexuality, especially as I started having gay sex in the late 80’s for obvious reasons and the prejudice that came from that.
@wc Sex for us is not a problem as I’ve still got an attractive to women and especially my wife, but we do a lot of pegging and I do a lot of solo and play, plus gay porn plays a big part in my life.