How many fingers?

Two fingers feels good for me or one in the pussy/arse. My OH has never tried to put any more than two in. I think I'm curious about fisting, and it's something you would need to take really slowly. I don't think my OH would be into to it. I once watched James Deen do it in a porno and he made it look so easy, well he's probably an expert lol.

I'm always open for trying new things, and if you try it and don't like it, don't do it again. After all babies come out of vagina's! So they must be really stretchy.

2 or 3 is enough for me,i would not like to have his fist in me,it would be pretty painful i guess.not all women could take it.but thats my thoughts.

I'm not up for fisting I really don't think I could accommodate this. Apart from the fact that my OH has massive hands, I am tight and enjoy this. I really do enjoy being fingered but usually only one occasionally 2 but I orgasm really easily with penetration and I'm often squirming with excitement before such a point as my OH could even attempt 3 fingers.

My wife doesn't take more than two fingers, and I respect that. On the other hand, I love it when she's fisting me.

It's not for everyone true I just thought I'd share my thoughts,, so maybe others will give it a try?

2 or 3 is all I can take

I love being fisted! Have to take it carefully and really trust each other! I love a bit of pain so for me this is amazing - each to their own I suppose?

I love being fisted! Have to take it carefully and really trust each other! I love a bit of pain so for me this is amazing - each to their own I suppose?

My oh can get 4 in which feels so good I love the stretch he hasn't managed to fist me yet but we are trying it's just not happening x

i have only ever been able to take mrs hand twice now i preferr 2 fingers anything more and i feel uncomfortable x

OH has had two children which may help, but any girl can it just takes more time to work up,, and my OH has to be really turned on, also the guy does not want to hurt his partner but if you(girl) give orders to him then you may progress more easily ie don't stop just push gently and only stop if I say to? as you can feel whats going on better.

My husband has always wanted to fist me but 3 fingers has been max. Until last week, we had a bit of a play session and lots and lots of lube and he managed to fist me.

Not something that we'd do regularly tho, it hurt to sit down the next day but was very enjoyable at the time.
But I couldn't say I didn't like it until we had tried and I did like it. So I wouldn't rule it out as a one off now and again ;) And to be honest I had my second child less than 5 months ago so I think that may have helped, but it still took some time to get there

Jessicaleon11 wrote:

My husband has always wanted to fist me but 3 fingers has been max. Until last week, we had a bit of a play session and lots and lots of lube and he managed to fist me.

Not something that we'd do regularly tho, it hurt to sit down the next day but was very enjoyable at the time.
But I couldn't say I didn't like it until we had tried and I did like it. So I wouldn't rule it out as a one off now and again ;) And to be honest I had my second child less than 5 months ago so I think that may have helped, but it still took some time to get there

Glad to hear you got there, its not something we do often either but was clear she really got off on it when it was in, gently turning my hand until she came.

Me and my partner have tried fisting before, although he couldnt get past the knuckle on his thumb inside. I just found it really uncomfortable, we try every now and again though. Hopefully one day! :) x

My OH has very big hands, and I remember the first times we were going at it and two of his fingers felt like max. Nowadays I'm craving for more, I'd love to get three fingers or more, but he usually just gives me one. It goes so deep it could easily hurt if he had more in, though. So maybe this is just good.

Can manage 4 fingers and half of husbands thumb. He has very chunky hands so struggling to get any more in. Love the feeling of being full and stretched and will have lots of fun trying to get the remainder of his hand in.

I love it when hubby fists me...there's just something so erotic about him having his whole hand inside of me and it feels sooooOoOo good! I can't remember the last time we had sex when he didn't fist me.

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Young and fun95 wrote:

So it does get hit during sex? What's a cervix? I'm concerned that I don't know my own body lol

Strangly this is the kind of thing you would of thought they would of taught us in Biology at school during sex education instead of mumbling about how babies are formed or not giving information at all.

Lots of Men/Women have no idea about there actual bodies when it comes to sex or the enjoyment of it, it's sad.

Sorry off topic.

Absolutely.

I struggle with 3. Two is plenty, sometimes 3 at most. Anything after that is painful!

I only like 1 finger.. I find any more uncomfortable and painful. I've had 2 kids so I'm sure he could fit a fist in there though :/

I've just got http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=12849 and have used it in the wifes kitty, will have to see if it makes it any easier to put my hand there, I've also got a new speculum(miller style), similar to this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16485 but it opens the same at the front area as inside so should make it much easier for me to play down there, as its all open to play with I have gently put up a steel sound in her pee hole, she doesnt complain so its all good, I've got a hollow silicone sound too, to try, might make it so I can drink her pee? or just drain it from her.