How much ejaculate after waiting how long?

I went 11 days without ejaculating (longest ever) before my wife gave me a blow job last night. We were going to fuck but she literally made me cum in less than 2 minutes and there was more than I thought was possible as she stroked the cum onto my chest :sweat_droplets: Found my moans were different too, almost uncontrollable. It turned her on too even though I desperately wanted to have sex.

Very interesting topic, enjoyed reading the stories. Personally speaking, earlier this year after some surgery, I had to abstain from any activity for at least six weeks, it was torture of course.
Almost at the end of week four I was completely cross-eyed one evening :rofl: and my o/h leant over with her LH mini wand (she was cruelly using it on herself) and held it along my very flaccid penis with the head just touching my scrotum.

In under ten seconds, there was three very slow gentle pulses containing what seemed like a tablespoon full each, almost no orgasm but a huge warm feeling instead.

Got away with it thankfully and managed to abstain again until the six week mark, but that was actually a fairly normal amount to be honest and not that pleasurable either due to the continued healing at the time.

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A lot of volume actually comes from Being hydrated, so plenty of fluids is the best way to gain more. If you have high protein or sugar in your diet it can lead to clumpy/jelly like ejaculate too.

smoking and types of medicines/drugs can also have a huge impact on quality and volume. Basically stay healthy and stay hydrated to shoot big loads.

I would say sometimes it’s also “edging” that works for me, so if my partner edges me for a long while or if i spend a few days playing with myself without releasing, the end result is usually huge.

I’ve abstained for as long as 55 days before & the cumshot was amazing!

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Must have been tough! I managed a month a few years back had multiple ropes at the end!

I can confidently say that after a week I can fill 2 table spoons, almost exactly, there was some spillage. But it varies.
I can orgasm twice in a session but after the first exuberance, the second time is usually just a dribble, but the orgasm itself feels extra intense.

But ordinarily I try to cum as often as possible so most loads can hardly be called that. I’ve heard ( via a urologist ) 28 times a month has been shown, in Australian trials, to reduce your chance of Prostate Cancer by 30%. I’ll take that.

I never measured the volume, but it’s always quite a lot. Even on a daily basis and even after a second round. But if I wait a week, I cum a lot more.

Mrs W here ………..

Oh dear, I have never measured the time waited since the previous time, and neither have I measured the volume of spunk from Mr W …….. but what I can say is that after he has been away for anything over a month, its a tremendous amount he cums - almost from the start he is dribbling …… could almost paint the ceiling with it ………. I will see if we can record some data next few times - the time he is away is easy but the rest …..

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Well we have never tried that, I give him two BJs daily but there seems to be more with his morning erection.

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Yes my sperm is thicker and a lot more of if I haven’t wanked or had sex for a week or so but worth the wait. Any longer than that there’s no improvement, I guess balls can only hold so much!

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Lucky man, I’m lucky to get one once a month!

The most I’ve ever produced was after a week of edging myself to the point of starting to leak duing the day was nearly a shot glass full.

Filled the glass and then down in one.

Next time Mrs Balls is away for a week , there will be a repeat.

Asking for a friend…

Where do us men find these women that will happily just wank us off? :rofl:

Back to the topic, after a few days tend to produce more, but also depends on the type of orgasm too if that makes sense, as mentioned if there’s more edging involved, tend to release more than just a quick one.

After 2-3 its the most, longest ive ever gone is 4 days though, by that point I just need a release too much

Spot on.

It’s not solely waiting several days. Yes, that does help, but this is like a stew with many different ingredients to it. There isn’t just one or two ingredients in this, but many.

Waiting several days plays into this.

So does hydration as you said.

How aroused one is also plays greatly into this.

Temperature may play into it. If one is really hot, like it’s 95 degrees and they are outside that will affect it too.

A blurb on heat and this.

"Being in a 95-degree environment can physically hinder a man’s sexual performance. Extreme heat drains stamina, causes dehydration, and elevates stress hormones, all of which directly inhibit the body’s natural ability to achieve and maintain an erection."

Not just an erection either, but how much he may shoot out, how far it shoots out may be affected in a lot of heat.

Age also plays into this too. As always, there are exceptions and outliers, but semen volume typically peaks in man’s 30’s.

Lifestyle habits affect this too. If a man smokes, drinks a lot, doesn’t exercise regularly, that affects many things, not just semen amount, but erection quality etc.

Additionally, Kegel’s aren’t just for women, they are for men too.

This has to do more with ejaculatory force and distance than amount though.

There is a muscle down there fellas. It’s called the bulbocavernosus (BC) muscle.

“To increase ejaculation force and range, focus on strengthening your bulbocavernosus (BC) muscle using targeted Kegel exercises. This muscle is responsible for pumping and propelling semen.”

Men who target this muscle can increase how far their semen shoots out (within reason of course).

Info online about this of course so I won’t cut and paste it here.

Medications a man may be on affect this too, semen amount, sex in general, think antidepressants among many others.

Hormones and genetics also plays a role in this too.

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Power and Distance of when my Mount Vesuvius erupts is dependant on the level of arousal. Be it an actual sexual encounter or wanking over porn it changes depending how excited I get. With regards to volume that just varies for me. I find my diet can affect the amount of sperm too. I masturbate twice a day as a min

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My husband got used to wanking daily when he was younger and so normally produced a very modest amount of ejaculate, not a terrible thing as less clean up to do!

The last year or so he has really the reduced how often he masturbates on his own and I have definitely seen an increase in how much volume he cums now.

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Like many others, I got used to porn and masturbating every day for years. I have cut back on this and try and wait in between sessions with my wife. She is very happy about this but has told me many times that she is only too happy to wank me in between anytime I need it. She is definitely a keeper!

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I would agree with most people on here that 4-5 days is probably the largest volume and shoots the furthest. I don’t really see bigger loads after this time. But it does get more sensitive the longer I leave it and less stokes are needed to shoot out a load!