As title suggests I want to find out how safe and healthy it is for me to stretch open my anus? I have got si noveltys 7" extra thick in all the way just this week after a month of trying on sunday nights only i decided i wanted to give it a go Wednesday there for a change.
Glad i did as it finaly went in ball deep at last what a fealling! I also have the magic hand and si novelty's 9" extra thick dildo. The 9" dildo is only getting in just about past the head as i can feel the vain lines.
Also i can never get passt the knuckle stage of the magic hand up my anus and i do give my self a good clean out if im going to have a good fisting. I have only had the tip of the 9" dildo up me what a fealling that was the first time. Cant wate to get balldeep with that.
Can i dildo fuck my asshole say 3 days a week baring in mind the hole is getting opened up to a minimum of 7" wide.
Also how menny nights is it safe to use the magic hand up me bum fanny!
The myth:Your anus will get all stretched out. The truth: Just like the myth that the vagina gets irreparably stretched out from childbirth, this is also a misconception. There were rumors in the late seventies of groups of men who engaged in so much anal activity that they actually lost control of bowel movements. Regular, healthy use of anal sex will not lead to this outcome. Through regular anal sex, your anus does learn to become more relaxed but much of that has to do with your ability to relax yourself mentally for the act. And we all know that the vagina accommodates a wide range of penises, the anus can too — with the right introduction.
I agree with what David said above. Unfortunately there are a lot of myths about the "tightness" of the vagina too. It is ironic because in general a "tight" vagina is one that is not aroused or the owner is anxious etc. A relaxed vagina is an aroused vagina! It has nothing to do with how many penises the woman has (the vagina elongates and relaxes during arousal), but like this anal myth, I believe the vagina myth is started by people who want to shame others and make them feel bad. (I bet she has a loose pussy, the amount of men she's had) - *vomits*
Anyway, as David said, it is a myth that your ass will just begin to "flop open" (sorry, couldnt think of a better term lol) due to stretching. The muscles are very good at pinging right back to their pre-stretched position after use. Like David said, the anus (and vagina) does learn to become more relaxed with practice, but also like David said...that is during the act, a mental and phsyical conditioning and it will not just "stay like that" As long as you listen to your body (and do not push through pain) you will be fine. If you do feel pain, that is your body telling you to stop. If you listen, you will have no problems.
Thanks folks feal better now. But i will be a bit less frank shall i say in forthcoming posts. You do get carried away in descriptions dont you especially when new to it.
And i did notice after my last play time after getting the 7"er all in at the end i let it pop out hands free!
Is there any tips in getting over the knuckle where the magic hand is concerned? Be more relaxed i guess, could heating up the hand help?
Heating most materials will make them expand so I wouldn't recommend heating it, there's also the chance you could disfigure it, and we don't want that happening!
I think if you can't get past the knuckle then you'll probably just need some more anal training. You could always just try and try again using lashings of anal lubricant and trying to relax, I find when I'm highly aroused right near the point of climax I'm at my most relaxed.
Do you own an inflatable butt plug? Maybe getting a large one and inflating will help you get that little bit bigger so you can accomodate the knuckles? I see the girth of it is 8.25 inches which I would presume is the largest part of the toy. You could have a look at this for example - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=12849
When it's not inflated it has a circumfrence of 6.25 inches, and you can inflate it up to 14.75 inches!
There is a larger one but it starts off at 8.5 inches and since the hand is 8.25 inches it's probably not suitable at the moment.
I do plan on getting butplugs this month with a bit of luck. Thinking on getting man in a barrel, ace of spades & three bangs for your buck for a bit of depth play! Might get the inflinflatable to help with the expanding training again.
I did have the colt expandable but plug when i first started some years back but it...... well exploded thankfully not in use at the time! Will not heat anything up now. Is there time limits i should not go over when playing if things are going well. I always stop when ever its too painful.
Really getting back into this and it is not fading and rarely a week passes when i have not wanted to play with my bum of late! Thanks lovehoney for this community forum and fabulous website services.
I f you heat things generally they get softer which may not help(too floppy), your body will tell you if you're overdoing things always take note of it, it takes time, I've being playing 20 years or more and just got to 4.25" dia.
Long slow tapered plugs are best for working up sizes unlike this one I have
You'll be fine, anal and vaginal stretching is pretty much a myth. Obviously with years of experience and increasing in size, naturally your anus is going to be able to accomidate bigger toys but i highly doubt you're gonna lose control your sphincter muscles any time soon!
Go ahead and dildo away to your heart's content my friend!!