It was easy for us. I had my period only two days after we got married. I asked him to beat off so I could watch. He agreed - but that I had to show him when I was off my period - I did. It was sooo hot doing it in front of him that I came easily!
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Love watching her finish herself off with vibrating dildo or womaniser. So hot ! Stroke myself while watching but have to slow down so as not to come which is hard when she is writhing and moaning. When she calms down jump on her for PIV with plenty of caressing and eye conact. Hold back as long as i can then let it go - getting hard just thinking of it. Might need to do something about that before she wakes up !
To hold back as long as you want, you can try edging. Edging makes delaying ejaculation a lot easier, and when you finally allow your self to cum, you get a full body orgasm, not just one in the groin. Sex therapist Helena Nista has a video about this. Just go to the YouTube website, and search for “HOW TO HAVE STRONGER ORGASMS WITH EDGING”.
Holy crap! I never knew! Now I can’t wait to do it in front of OH. That may like be the first orgasm I ever had. You see, not knowing, I played with my penis, stopped, did it some more - each time I felt “it” build but didn’t know what to expect. Then I kept going the third time it built up and OMG! I came so hard and so much!!!
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Yes, it really can be a full body orgasm. When I get the tingling in the spine, I know that it is time to back off and go into another cycle.
Thanks for sharing this. I have been curios and thats sounded extremely hot, and i just let my girl read this. Done. Done. Satisfied
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@user25 - nice to hear you liked my post - I hope your partner can do this for you - it always gets my husbands heart racing watching me play with myself
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I’m on the opposite side from this as a man who’d love his wife to masturbate with him. Been married for 36 years and had a fairly vanilla sex life. I’m quite happy to masturbate in front of her and really enjoy the open and trusting feeling I get doing it. She’s quite happy to watch and join in touching me but has never once touched herself. I often wonder and say it’s all one sided where I get fulfilment but she doesn’t. I have recently bought the Lovehoney oh board game which has several suggestions for masturbating together, hopefully this will break the ice , may be this could work for you.
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I hope that you make some progress on getting her interested in touching herself. One way to encourage her to touch herself is that you could offer to use a bullet vibrator on her. If she can tolerate it, you could pull back her clitoral hood, apply lube around the clitoris, and trace the vibrator around her clitoris. If her clit is not too sensitive, this usually works quite well. Be sure to push down slightly when you pull the clitoral hood back, because that will make the clitoris protrude out so that you can see it better and not hit it with the vibrator. Doing this together also gets the both of you involved and encourages her.
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My wife had never masturbated in her life, not even solo when she was younger.
I gradually introduced her to it once we began using toys.
Initially i would simply hold the toy and use it on her clitoris. From there i asked her to put her hand over mine to guide me as to how best to make her come.
A big step was swapping hands so that she was holding the toy and i had my hand over hers to reassure her.
Finally, once she was happy holding the toy i just removed my hand and left her to it.
Nowadays all her orgasms come from masturbation with various toys and almost all of them are with me present. She rarely masturbates alone.
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I love seeing her playing with herself all the way! My penis oozes like crazy just seeing her. This forum has helped us both soooo much!!
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My Husband wanted me to masturbate for him before we were married.
I was very uncomfortable at the time.
I tried it after a few drinks & found it quite exciting watching his face as I was doing it.
We masturbate whilst watching each other quite often now, very exhilarating.
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Well finally plucked up the courage and as my man if he would be ok with me masterbating in front of him. His reply was do it now. I didn’t let him touch, I done it with my head other end of bed so he had full view of my pussy. I must say it was amazing
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Oh yes done that with my oh the played with myself over her
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I’m gonna get him to do that
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@bill.rebecca23 yeah do it my oh loves it while she plays with herself I do at same time we love it and watch each other
Once you are both masturbating facing each other, the next step could be for him to simulate you to orgasm with a bullet vibrator or some other way. If you can tolerate it, he could pull back on your clitoral hood, put some lube around your clit, and, being careful to press down a little to make the clit rise up, he could trace around your clit with his finger or a bullet vibrator. That usually works very well.
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Thanks for the advice. I’m not experienced in sex as it was always what my husband wanted, bloke before that just used me. My current partner was my fist and my last. I’ve had never had an orgasam, squatted or cum until him. I’ve had a lot of firsts with him.
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@bill.rebecca23 then just do wat feels comfortable and wat yiu both enjoy I love watching her play with herself and she loves watching me to and seeing each other wat we likr
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I love it when he has me in doggy, up the arse then his hand on clit and inside me. Then he finish in my pussy and we come together 
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