my partner would love it if I could shoot my cum all over her body and tits just like in the porn movies we watch, and to be honest SO would I. There is plenty of cum just no pressure lol, what's the secret?? I'd love to be able to do this!!!, cheers .
We find edging can work to increase the pressure so worth a go.
usually if we haven't seen each other/had sex in a good few days (a week even) there is a LOT of semen and a lot more pressure! goes bloody everywhere. as truegrace suggests, i think edging could work to a similar effect :)
Edging hmm, never heard of it, what does this involve? There must be some secret to shoot like a porn star, maybe I'll try the garden hose trick put a finger over the end lol.
Not sure if this is something you can 'train' to do - everyone is different - for some people it just comes naturally (pardon the pun).
For me, whenever I orgasm solo, it's usually nothing to write home about - but when i'm with my partner, I am much more aroused, and it leads to much stronger and bigger orgasms (so much so I took out my own face).
Stamina training/edging could possibly help you... slowly build up to climax and you might see a more powerful ejaculation.
Sco77 wrote:
Edging hmm, never heard of it, what does this involve? There must be some secret to shoot like a porn star, maybe I'll try the garden hose trick put a finger over the end lol.
Edging is basically bringing yourself close to orgasm and then stopping. You do this over an extended period of time and then when you finally let yourself orgasm, it's amazing...
If i'm looking to indulge in a bit of edging, just as I start to get that familiar feeling that i'm about to cum, i'll grip the penis just under the glans and hold it until it passes. Then after a couple of minutes i'll continue masturbating or stroking and repeat the process - I can usually last about an hour before it's all too much and I need to orgasm.
Avrielle_Aniko wrote:
Not sure if there is much that can be done with actual cum, except let it build up. But prostate milking, when done right, can produce a lot of pre-cum.
Recently began experimenting with it with my partner and I think it's great!
[Edit - just noticed it is the pressure thing you want to know about. I too would like to know if there is a secret. ;-)
Am not sure am brave enough to give that a try yet, I doctors finger is bad enough... Lol
DavidB1986 wrote:
Sco77 wrote:
Edging hmm, never heard of it, what does this involve? There must be some secret to shoot like a porn star, maybe I'll try the garden hose trick put a finger over the end lol.
Edging is basically bringing yourself close to orgasm and then stopping. You do this over an extended period of time and then when you finally let yourself orgasm, it's amazing...
If i'm looking to indulge in a bit of edging, just as I start to get that familiar feeling that i'm about to cum, i'll grip the penis just under the glans and hold it until it passes. Then after a couple of minutes i'll continue masturbating or stroking and repeat the process - I can usually last about an hour before it's all too much and I need to orgasm.
so squeezing behind the head of my penis when am about to cum in turn stops me cuming keep doing this until I can't take it anymore and them boom lol. Is it not painfull or damaging squeezing behind the head and stopping yourself coming, what happens to the cum?.
The idea is to get it to the point where you are ABOUT to cum, not when you actually cum. If you cum and you 'hold it in' - this can lead to retrograde ejaculation and can cause some medical problems further down the line.
It's difficult to explain I guess, the pinching things works for me, but other people might do things different.. but the basic idea is to try to withold from actually orgasming.
So I guess, just start masturbating and just as you start to get close to cumming, STOP. Give it a few minutes and start again, and once you get close again, STOP. Just keep repeating until you physically cannot hold it in anymore.
If you do this often, not only will it help you last longer, but it could lead to bigger, stronger orgasms.
Ahh Ok I get it now defo be trying this with my partner tonight, I'll need to keep her occupied wen I pull out for a few mins, am sureI'll think of something
cheers for the info, I love this forum already!!
It takes a bit of practice but not only can it be beneficial, but it can be great fun too 
Good luck!
The longer you stay hard, they longer you would shoot so try having longer sessions. I personally use china brush and sometimes have shot in hair
Just don't have sex for a little while :)
Hi Sco77. Welcome many things can factor into this. First don't be thinking your not normal as you don't shoot. Edging and abstaining can help my OH likes to do this when it's the time of the month. So after she can tease me all she likes, much beyond a week has little or any benefit. After 3 days the body starts to reabsorb your semen.
A couple of other things to suggest. Hydration will help with volume but you need to keep it stable and not just top up before sex, that doesn't work. The other is male pelvic floor exercise, your penis is a muscle( your love muscle) and just like the rest of your body can be exercised. The main thing to exercise your muscles is blood flow. So get your self erect ( I like to do this after a bath when you've done your testicular self exam). Then start with a flannel and put it over your erect penis, then try and lift it without your hands then relax and let it drop and then lift again. You will know how to do this by clenching your pc muscle inside . Over a few weeks you will notice you will be able to move your penis more and more eventually building up to a big damp bath towel. Once you've achieved this you will have a good idea of how to squeeze your pc without any weight on it and you can exercise it at any time like ,when driving or sitting down.
Ok great what am I going to do with all this training I hear you ask. It is possible to clench and stop your self from coming most of the time( try stopping your self from peeing airflow) and all so once you have started to come try to push it out.
Prostate massage can help if you are up for it. Just having a prostate vibe in and clenching it with your pc will produce more volume and should help you shoot.
I am afraid it's a bit like female ejaculation some are lucky and can, others may never be able to achieve it. It's something I have Allways done and quite a lot a long distance. However this isn't always good. My wife on occasion has to turn away or gets cross when it goes somewhere she doesn't want it too. She got very cross after painting our bedroom I got horny , we did it doggy I pulled out to shoot it up her back which she loves and the first big pump hit the freshly painted wall behind the head board just above her head.
Good luck I hope this may help .
Love the painting story "GG", very funny, thanks for sharing and the tip with the pc muscels, will give it a go, can't hurt :)
Everyone's different, but as a general rule:
Longer since last orgasm
A longer time in arousal before orgasm
Edging
Will all make something of a difference.
I would suggest a cock ring as well.. I have one with a strap that snugs around the ball sack, and vibrates also... Got it form this LH webstore... works for me, and helps me to stop coming too early, which I do far too often when we haven't had sex for a few days or more. I want hints on how NOT to cum too early, then pls the OH by cuming big ??
To be completely honest, (and speaking from the perspective of a Femdom who has edged and denied my partner for years) there is not a huge deal you can do to go from being a dribbler to a shooter. I am with a guy who does not shoot very far and no amount of edging or denial or horniness changes that. It just is what it is. However, I have read that you can change this (I still feel doubtful) but the tips I would give to attempt this are as follows:
1) Make sure you are hydrated leading up to the day of the orgasm. Remember that cum is made up from fluids and if you ensure your body has plenty fluid to spare, then it can help
2) Practice kegel workouts. Yes, men have kegel muscles. These are the muscles you squeeze to stop peeing mid flow. They will also cause your penis to bounce up and down if you flex them when erect. These muscles help control your shooting and it makes sense to assume that the stronger those muscles are, the more "power" they will put behind your orgasm.
3) After a few weeks/months of doing regular daily kegels, the day will come to attempt your shooting. For a few days, to a week leading up to this day, tease and deny yourself. Masturbate, play with your woman and so on...letting yourself get reasonably close to orgasm, but stopping and denying it. This will build up your arousal and horniness. On the actual day/session you are going to attempt it, you want to try and edge numerous times over a period of an hour or two, before letting loose. (The reason for this is because the longer you stay aroused before orgasm, the more fluid that fills up ready)
5) Other quick measures you could try: Try squeezing your pelvic floor muscles at the time of orgasm, this builds up a pressure that may cause a pop. For my guy, it feels more natural and more enjoyable to let those muscles relax at the point of orgasm, but for shooting, it helps to build up that pressure. Drink plenty of fluids and give it a try.
But do not be too disheartened if you cannot shoot like a porn star. Some men are shooters and some dribble, but the important thing at the end of the day is that you have orgasms and they feel good and you share them together. You can still cum on her body and make it more visual by rubbing it in, or watching her lick it off body parts. In other words, if you are naturally a dribbler, roll with it and find other ways to spice up the pop shot. After all, you are not any less of a sexual being if you cannot shoot far, as a woman who cannot squirt far. Its just how we are built.
Have fun!