Hi @BBWlover40HH, I’m sorry to hear you are thinking of leaving the forum. I thought I would hop in here and explain the rules a bit more.
You are allowed to discuss sexual acts openly and share tips/tricks with the forum community. What isn’t allowed is content that was written in a way that read like it is intended to arouse. Using overly descriptive terminology often ends up reading as erotica, rather than advice.
eg:
“I bought a coconut at the shops”
vs
“I slipped the furry brown sphere into my shiny metal basket”
Below are some threads that explain this rule, one from when it was added in 2013 and another from a few years ago :
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