Hi, I’m a guy who’s would like to introduce sex toys into the bedroom with my GF but don’t know how to go about brining it up to her. Any advice?
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Hello welcome to the forum, any such activity or wishes should always be fully discussed between you both and only if you both agree then proceed just be open and honest about your likes and fantasy’s also listen to OH and what they like AND don’t like and respect their wishes, enjoy one another ! 
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Hello and welcome @Newbie995
There’s a Lovehoney blog you may find useful -
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Hello there 
Hey and welcome to the forum 
I would just bring it up in conversation one night with your partner and suggest you look at the lovehoney site together and see what you both like the look of. There is so much out there that I’m sure you will find something suited to both.
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I think you just need to find a suitable time and just bring it up in conversation.
I totally agree with @Deanna32. I would also highly recommend shopping/browsing the LH selection together and picking something. It will be an adventure that you can both then share together.
Hellooo,
Why not have a chat then browse the LH website and see what she / you both would fancy…
Hi @Newbie995
Thanks for all the advice. I really appreciate it. What toys would you recommend?
Hi, thanks for the advice
It’s so hard to say because what suits one couple would not suit another. Lots of couples love cock rings, me and my partner don’t like them. If your both completely new to toys then maybe try a sex toy beginners bundle or bondage beginners bundle.
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So beginners toys…don’t go straight in with the big boys lol
As someone who overthinks everything, don’t overthink it. Just say hey do you want to try out some sex toys and see what they’re like?’ And then have a nosy together. But she will automatically ask what kind of toys you want to try so have a look yourself.
I would absolutely recommend to not suggest that you want to see your GF play with a massive dildo or anything like that. I would suggest something you both can use together instead.
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Okay thanks, I’ll try pick up the courage to just bring it up. So more enhancing toys like cockrings, vibrators and but plugs?
Would the butt plug be for you or for your GF?
Never really considered using it on me lol
Do you have anal sex?
No not tried it yet
Honestly just experiment together it’s the best way. I bought my other half a butt toy and he didn’t like it so that’s now in my collection. Just start of with beginner stuff as if you go to far at the beginning it could put her off.
Will have a look at beginners bundles. Was initially thinking of getting some and surprising her but I think I get now that picking them out together is part of it
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