Hi everybody !! How´s going?? I´m new here :) and I´d like to know how to seduce my boyfriend again?? Recently he works hard and is very tired, so.. we don´t make love as much as before.. maybe you guys could give me some tips about that??? What could I do??? Please help!!!
Thank you for your advice! :) I´ll think about a seductive dance ..
After you've experimented with suprises try texting him through his day what he has to look forward to and he'll be pretty worked up when he comes through the door..
Hmmm I haven´t thought about that.. that´s nice idea! thanks!
A lap dance is fairly easy and if he's really tired doesn't require masses of energy on his part but is guaranteed to be arousing ;~) I find it's most effective when wearing just enough to tease but not enough to be a 'good girl'
A strip tease also ought to work, and there is a lot of advice on how to if you are inexperienced (as I am)
heels seem to be a turn on for a lot of men, especially when teamed with something sexy.
Possibly a surprise romantic dinner if you cook well. My husband works shifts and often comes home quite tired so if you are willing it may be worth bathing him (veeeery relaxing if one enjoys massage or pampering and quite erotic when done sensually)
I've also found tying him up and forbidding X level of movement to be ahm..invigorating and very effective if you are into such things,
Sorry I can't be of more help. Good luck.
Oh.. I´ve never done anything of that.. it´s something new for me.. in fact I have no idea how to do a streaptease and I´m afraid to look ridiculous... but thanks for sharing ideas with me :) I apreciate it
LOL. I felt like an idiot the first time and had to actually research advice . Still sometimes do, but don't take anything to seriously, just as fun. :) whatever you do I'm sure he'll love it!
If he's a hard worker help him unwind with a massage and wait for him to initiate the heavier stuff. The idea is to get into any situation that results in what he feels is impromptu sex but because you've masterminded it, it will have an extra perka and suprise when he disovers you're prepared and ready wearing sexy lingerie. That way he gets the combined benefits of spontaneous and non-spontaneous luvin'.
Changing the mood in your bedroom can help too. Seduce him downstairs and then let him be suprised when you lead him up to a room with candles, soft music, etc. You may consider wearing something he wouldn't expect to see you in as well.
Tracey Cox's guide to quickie sex on Love Honey may be good reading if you're pushed for time.
Talking about lingerie... once he told me that he doesn´t care for what lingerie I´m wearing, and he has been always quite indifferent about that, you know.. So I´m not sure if it would work?.. And yes, maybe I should start with relaxing massage...It could help... and maybe a bath with all that romantic stuff :) .. and to see if there´s any reaction..
Ah laid back kind of guy. Does he react well if you pump up your sexually aggresive, dominant side?
Dominant side.. we´ve always been in similar,equal positions.. in fact I´ve always wanted to by a little bit more dominated by him..
If it suits you both there's always the idea of watching the porn of your choice with a dominant scenario you would like to try. Maybe talk about domination in a general way and tell him you find it sexy when he takes control. Rather than say that you feel he doesn't get dominant enough, bring up the times when he was and let him know how sexy it was for you.
If in doubt. It's hard to feel dominant on your knees...
Ooh I just remembered, Studley has great lapdance tips at the top of this thread
lil_cherry wrote:
Talking about lingerie... once he told me that he doesn´t care for what lingerie I´m wearing, and he has been always quite indifferent about that, you know.. So I´m not sure if it would work?.. And yes, maybe I should start with relaxing massage...It could help... and maybe a bath with all that romantic stuff :) .. and to see if there´s any reaction..
Hiya Lil_cherry and welcome to the forum.
I bet if you put some thigh high boots on with a sexy lacey suspender belt and matching thong and peephole bra, baby oil in one hand and flogger in the other he'd be begging for you girl.
I have a manually hard job and my OH has me a bath run and in the bedroom massages me whilst in sexy undies. The feel of her sitting astride me grinding down on me as she kneeds my aching muscles perks me right up I tell you! I have a few coffees and I'm ready to go
Oh, she has the undies on. . . .not me. . . . well okay I end up with them on later!
SG69 x
SEXYGET 69 wrote:
lil_cherry wrote:
Talking about lingerie... once he told me that he doesn´t care for what lingerie I´m wearing, and he has been always quite indifferent about that, you know.. So I´m not sure if it would work?.. And yes, maybe I should start with relaxing massage...It could help... and maybe a bath with all that romantic stuff :) .. and to see if there´s any reaction..
Hiya Lil_cherry and welcome to the forum.
I bet if you put some thigh high boots on with a sexy lacey suspender belt and matching thong and peephole bra, baby oil in one hand and flogger in the other he'd be begging for you girl.
I have a manually hard job and my OH has me a bath run and in the bedroom massages me whilst in sexy undies. The feel of her sitting astride me grinding down on me as she kneeds my aching muscles perks me right up I tell you! I have a few coffees and I'm ready to go
Oh, she has the undies on. . . .not me. . . . well okay I end up with them on later!
SG69 x
i think your thinking! x
SEXYGET 69 wrote:
lil_cherry wrote:
Talking about lingerie... once he told me that he doesn´t care for what lingerie I´m wearing, and he has been always quite indifferent about that, you know.. So I´m not sure if it would work?.. And yes, maybe I should start with relaxing massage...It could help... and maybe a bath with all that romantic stuff :) .. and to see if there´s any reaction..
Hiya Lil_cherry and welcome to the forum.
I bet if you put some thigh high boots on with a sexy lacey suspender belt and matching thong and peephole bra, baby oil in one hand and flogger in the other he'd be begging for you girl.
I have a manually hard job and my OH has me a bath run and in the bedroom massages me whilst in sexy undies. The feel of her sitting astride me grinding down on me as she kneeds my aching muscles perks me right up I tell you! I have a few coffees and I'm ready to go
Oh, she has the undies on. . . .not me. . . . well okay I end up with them on later!
SG69 x
Thank you for the advice! Hmm and how about something like that???
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16155
Is it sexy enough?? and I could add some music too.. this would be ok? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cG0qv9s0VNo
I'm sure he would love something like that, certainly looks sexy enough to me! I was terrified the first time I dressed up for my OH, thought he might laugh at me. Couldn't have been more wrong,he was speechless,(in a good way!)! Our sex life went of the boil for quite a while,but with a bit of effort it's come back better than ever. We can't get enough of each other now, and we've been together 11 years! LH definitley helps too! Good luck!
I´m terrified too right now LOL I´ve never done this before!!!I feel a little bit clumsy LOL I hope he´ll like it! Thanks!!
Be sure to wear something you feel comfortable in,(well as comfortable as you can be when your scared and wearing something tiny and tight,lol!) Confidence is the key, practice your brave face! I find anything without a crotch works for mine, but would be no good if you feel too self conscious! Whatever you wear I'm sure he'll think it's Christmas again!
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That corset is lush! If he doesn't find that sexy then I don't know what he will. If I was to wear this I know my boyfriend wouldn't be able to keep his hands off me. The first time I wore sexy undies for my boyfriend I felt a little silly but now I love it just as much as he does. mbtoo is right, confidence is the key. A few tips that worked for me the first time.
Spend ages getting ready, a nice long soak in the bath with maybe a glass of wine (a glass, not the whole bottle lol). Relax!
Stand in front of a full length mirror if you have 1 and tell yourself how hot you look in your sexy undies, say it out loud! I am DAMN sexy!
Set the mood in the bedroom, soft lighting ect.
Text your partner, some thing like, I have a surprise for you, let yourself in and lock the door after you. I'm waiting!
When he gets there make sure you are lying seductivly on the bed, when he opens the door don't say anything, just use your finger in a 'come here' motion.
Hopefully he will be gobsmacked and once he gets his breath back he will take over!
Hope that helps!
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