I woke up in a panic once because I thought I was peeing! Just turned out I was getting a rather wet blowjob
But Iv been woken up a few times, if he has said go for it then my suggestion is just push on through. He may be super relaxed and stays asleep for a bit, but after a while he will wake up and Iām sure he will be very thankful
I like to be woken up to the wife over my face slowly stroking onto my face shortly followed by 69 I am a heavy sleeper so take a little touch to wake me
Iāve done it a few times but hubby and I are both stomach sleepers (I know, terrible!) so it tends to not happen so often.
My best advice if youāre worried would be donāt dive straight in. Lightly kiss your way up his thighs, which is almost guaranteed to invoke a response! Shower him with wet kisses, rather than a blow job per se. When he stirs and realises what youāre planning to do, of course heās not likely to say no!
If youāve woken up in bed with a man to find him straddling your face and trying to work himself into your mouth, youāll realize how much easier it is for you to start things.
My 2 pennies as a guy who has had this done to him, for what itās worth.
(Iām assuming heās sleeping on his back)
suggest that he goes to sleep with nothing on his bottom half
crawl under the sheets, rather than take them off
donāt be overly playful eg kisses to the thighs etc (theyāll probably be closed anyway). That just tickles when being woken up, and who wants to be woken up to being tickled?
heās asleep so will probably miss any attempt at foreplay (plus, see point above)
donāt overthink it and just put his penis in your mouth and gently blow him as you would if he was awake, or start licking the balls (if theyāre available). If he starts growing you know youāre on to a winner. If he doesnāt then you know you probably havenāt woken him up and you can either keep trying until he wakes up, or stop and he doesnāt know what happened - no harm done.
if he likes rimming then donāt start with that. Itās a bit intense (I think) for being woken up with. Save that for later.
just start off with a sensual blowjob in mind, nothing too intense until he wakes up and then itās BAU.
heās given you blanket consent. You donāt need to re-check (in my opinion). Maybe check in from time to time, but I donāt think you need to worry about re-getting it. Heāll let you know if itās an issue.
Alternatively, maybe consider just asking him how heād like to be woken up.