Well it does come with a self warming feature! And if I put some big long beads in the rear end and put the vibrations on full throttle, I can get the knobbles and vibrations going on then and i might be in for a chance 
no seriously I think it’s great. Its dead hot to see/read about someone getting themself off male or female X
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I’d be rather concerned if my OH had a fleshlight.
Although it has been briefly mentioned about getting some toys for me
A few months ago I went out on a limb and bought some toys to play with, a small bullet vibrator, and glass dildo and some nipple suckers. I showed them to my wife, and she complained that they all were aimed at her…..did I not get anything for myself ? So,I ordered a Fleshlight Vantage. She has not embraced the toys for herself, but did get to use the Fleshlight on me on one occasion. She said it was fun using it on me. I didn’t orgasm from it though, I think because of embarrassment, and shyness on my part. She still has not played with any of the toys I got her. Maybe sometime.
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I keep trying to convince my husband to try toys. I would be fine with a fleshlight.
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I keep using the sex toy/food analogy with my wife. I you never taste a different food, how do you know you’re not going to like or love it ? We have gone down that road several times, exploring different cuisines and finding we really enjoy the variety. “ Spicy” can be good with food as well as sex. Just push your boundaries and discover new flavors. Still can be a tough sell with her.
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Talking of which, the delivery driver has just been.
My new Fleshlight x Lovehoney has been unpacked and my wife has had a look.
We will see how it goes and how easy it is, although she’s bloody good with them on me.
We’ve gone for the Fleshlight lube this time, as we normally use standard LH stuff. I wonder how different it will be?
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I have fleshlights, a vibrating massager and an automatic thrusting and rotating arcwave machine. All of them add a little extra to solo play or even during couple play, especially if MrsW is feeling sadistic and delays my ejaculation.
She has clitoral toys, the odd vibrator and a couple of dildos, she says she doesn’t do solo play, but she loves it when I use them on her.
I have a rather large collection of dildos, plugs beads etc.. they all get used during our pegging sessions or I’ll use a few dildos during solo play, along with my masturbators.
https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/the-toy-box/258951/362
She isn’t too bothered about the toys that I have, as she uses the majority of the dildos to peg me, and she’s not all that bothered about the masturbators either.
Every couple has a different kind of relationship, some are very vanilla and some are very kinky, then some are in between. However it’s about finding out what you both like and don’t like.
If you do add toys to your drawer and you hide them then that’s when problems could arise. Always discuss them in the beginning.
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